Are you friends with your ex's or do you hate them like poison?
By sharone74
@sharone74 (4837)
United States
11 responses
@marissaj07 (402)
• United States
7 Jan 07
I absolutly hate my ex only because he did a very rotten thing and told everyone that was my friend that I was saying really nasty crap about them. So I lost about 15 friends.
@LilNgCash (282)
• United States
7 Jan 07
I am friend with my ex girlfriend and I am friend with her boyfriend.I am a peaceful man so i dont hate them:)Have a nice day everyone.
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@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
7 Jan 07
I think that people who loved each other at one point in time should remain friends just because you can't love each other forever doesn't mean that you cut them off completely
@visitorinvasion (7709)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Noway, nohow.
There's not one good reason to ever have contact with anyone I ever was serious with. Not one.
Those who are, or have to be due to sharing a child, have my utmost respect.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
8 Jan 07
You must have had some really bad break ups to put it out of the question like that. Sometimes there are those people that you wish you could still be friends with after you break up.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I'm friends with most of my ex's...I see no point in hating each other just because intimately things didnt work out ya know..there was obviously something tht attracted you to each other in the first place....
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Yeah and there are those relationships that start out with you and he being friends for years and then you get into a short lived relationship and you just wish that you could get your friend back after y'all breakup.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
8 Jan 07
that's very mature and it is a good thing that you two can maintain the friendship
@Lady_Vincy (1538)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I'm friends with most of my ex's. They wound up being really good friends. Some of them better than others. Some of them even confide in me when they have problems. That is not to say I don't have ex's that I really dislike.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
8 Jan 07
there are some truly dislikeable people out there. So that is not at all unusual.
@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
7 Jan 07
I am still friends with two of the ex girlfriends that I have been with. The ones that I do not keep in touch with I still like but we just don't keep in touch anymore due to our busy lives. Me and the first one are very good friends and keep in touch when possible and the other one I hear from occasionally. They both live long distance. I do not hate anyone that i dated.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
7 Jan 07
That is good,that you can still maintain a friendship with them.
@redyellowblackdog (10629)
• United States
7 Jan 07
Having been happily married for over 34 years, any ex's I have had are a long time ago and far... far... away. I do not even know if I'd recognize any of them, even if I ran into them.
However, I never was on bad terms with any of them. They were girls I dated because I liked and admired them. Just because they decided after knowing me for awhile that the feeling was not mutual is no reason to dislike them. They all were still the wonderful examples womanhood they were before we broke up.
@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
7 Jan 07
At first I was still friend with my ex even if he was the one who leaft me. But everytime that we were talking he only talk about girls he met and wish they were his girlfriend only after one night he met them. He was only talking aout him all the time. Also the last time we saw each other he tried to kiss me even if I have a boyfriend. he wanted me back.
So i decide not to talk to him anymore.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
8 Jan 07
It sounds like a case of wanting what he can't have. I think yo made the right choice to cut him loose
@nuttmeg (440)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I have been friends with several of my ex's, as well as their new girlfriends, mostly because they were just good guys but we just didn't work out. I'm also a forgiving person when it comes down to it, which sometimes backfires on me but no matter. I don't talk to them much lately, though I have been known to just hangout as friends after sometime from breaking up. I think the ones who I haven't bothered to keep in touch with are the ones who were pretty much jerks and just bad to be around in general, when all's said and done.
@everiedmndae (31)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I am still friends with all my ex's. I think we make better friends then boyfriend and girlfriend. I am not really in to that commitment thing at the moment so it is really hard for me to keep a boyfriend, I would much rather just be friends with him.
