Married People

United States
January 7, 2007 1:02pm CST
Tell me why it is or isn't ok for your husband to leave the house without having to say where he is going? And if you are the husband tell why you do or dont say where you're going everytime you leave the house.
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9 responses
@LilNgCash (282)
• United States
7 Jan 07
every time when i'm going somewhere firstly i'm telling to my wife and if she needs me then she would know where i am:)Have a nice day everyone.
• United States
7 Jan 07
i wish my husband was like that he thinks if you dont ask then he wont tell
@emelia (47)
• Turkey
7 Jan 07
men feel theirselves enough captured as being married and i think they see it some kinda "may be i am married but i have still a part which has freedom"
@emelia (47)
• Turkey
7 Jan 07
men feel themselves enough captured as being married and i think they see it some kinda "may be i am married but i have still a part which has freedom"
• United States
7 Jan 07
When you enter a long-term relationship, even if you aren't married, it is a courtesy to tell your partner where you are going and when you will return. Why have secrets? If you do not want to share your life with another person, why be in a relationship at all?
• United States
7 Jan 07
thats what im tryin to say
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• United States
11 Jan 07
Thank you. People who share their lives with others need to respect the relationship.
@neilf49 (809)
7 Jan 07
I always tell my wife where I'm going so that if anything happens at home or where she is she knows where she can contact me. Also it is only couteous to tell her. I wouldn't dream of not saying where I'm going, but it does have its drawbacks, especially when it comes to buying birthday presents etc.
• United States
7 Jan 07
if you are going to buy a present or get something for her all you have to say is its a surprise or something i cant stand when he leaves the house and not say where he is going all i get is i'll be back i mean i am your wife not just some girl you shackin up with dont i have the right to know where you're going
• United States
7 Jan 07
because sometimes a man dont want nobody to know where he is, simple as that, it doesnt mean that we are cheating, maybe we go get you a surprise, lol
• United States
7 Jan 07
yeah right
@BigBenas (943)
• Lithuania
7 Jan 07
I say to my wife were i'm going but i think that men likes to be cool and don't say where is he going . But that is silly i think that wife needs to know were her lover goes .
• United States
7 Jan 07
a wife should always know where her husband is she just looks stupid if somebody asks her where is your husband and all she can say is i dont know i mean it goes both ways a husband should know where his wife is to
• United States
7 Jan 07
There really isnt any problem with a man not saying where he is going if there is trust in the relationship. I have been married almost 20 years and my husband tells me simply because he wants to not because he has to. Some men/woman need privacy, and there is nothing wrong with giving it to them. Great question
• United States
7 Jan 07
thank you
@umerasif (532)
• Pakistan
9 Jan 07
Well husband here and I always tell my wife where I am going when I leave the house. Why should I not tell her where I am off to? I believe she should know exactly where i am so that I can be reached when ever she feels the need to do so
@usman400 (1587)
• Pakistan
8 Jan 07
Its just the matter of care one does for its better half, I think it must be from one side each time
@hinrichas (395)
• Spain
7 Jan 07
When I go, I first about that say my wife and she everytime know where I am. So my wife is very prety. Have a nice day everyone :).