Your Friend Is Having An Affair

Relationships - Love and Marriage. What happens when one of you have an affair?
@EvrWonder (3571)
Canada
January 7, 2007 3:19pm CST
If you knew that your best friends husband was having an affair and he knew that you knew, would you tell his wife? Or if your best friends wife was having an affair and she knew you knew, would you tell him?
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3 responses
• United States
11 Jan 07
I would tell my friend if I know they'd accept what I was telling them. Some people would turn their backs on their friends and just believe their partner. Also, if my friend was emotionally unstable & I thought he/she would go phsically hurt his/her spouse or anyone else....i would have to just think some more. But if this was truly my friend, I would with out a doubt snitch on the cheater. i don't like to see my friends hurting.
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
11 Jan 07
Thank you for your response. I know I would too, however, not without first pondering the possible consequences on everyone involved.
• United States
11 Jan 07
I know right. Well, thanks for the high rating, it's my 1st. I 'd like to thank all the little people that made my life hell to give me such wisdom & 2nd I want to thank God for giving me the strength not to killem'. Amen. Thanks again.
• United States
24 Jan 07
I would tell them. I think it would be important to your friendship to let them know they're being disrespected. If they don't believe you or cut your friendship off - they'll be back. Because the truth always come out.
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
21 Oct 07
The guilt not to! Thank you for the comment.
@allen123 (76)
• United States
11 Jan 07
no id tell the cheater that they knew i knew and it would be in there best intrest too cutt it out or you will tell because thats your friend and you wont see them hurt
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
18 Jan 07
Thank you. I would probably want to do that sort of thing too.