A positive attitude will make you a happier person

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@deeeky (3667)
Edinburgh, Scotland
January 7, 2007 4:27pm CST
There once was very poor man living in a village who had a very fine horse. So fine, in fact, that the lord of the castle wanted to buy it. But the old man always refused. "To me this horse is not merely an animal. He's a friend. How could I sell you my friend?"One morning he went to the stable and found his horse gone. All the villagers said, "We told you! You should have sold your horse. Now he's been stolen instead. What terrible luck." "Bad luck or good luck," the old man said. "Who can say?"Everyone laughed at him. But 15 days later the horse returned, followed by a whole herd of wild horses. He had escaped from the stable, courted a young mare, and returned with the rest of the herd following behind! "What luck!" the villagers cried. The old man and his son began training the wild horses. But a week later the man's son broke his leg trying to train one of the horses. "Bad luck," said his friends. "What are you going to do now without your son to help you? You who are already so poor." "Bad luck, good luck, who can say?" the old man replied. A few days later an army belonging to the lord of the land passed through the village and forced all the young men to become soldiers. All... except the old man's son, because of his broken leg. "How lucky you are," the villagers cried. "All our children are gone to war, but you've been able to keep your son. Our sons will probably be killed..." The old man replied, "Bad luck, good luck... who can say?"The future comes to us in bits and pieces. We never know what lies in store for us. But if you always maintain a positive attitude the doors of chance remain open, and you will be a happier person.
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@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
26 Jan 07
OMG that story really explains the whole thing of fate in a way, like there is always a silver lining in any situation, one thing leads to another...thank you for that.
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
27 Jan 07
Glad you enjoyed. I will be bringing more in that line so keep a look out in future. Thahx for that response and welcome.
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@Darkwing (21583)
8 Jan 07
That's a very good story, Deeeky, and yes, I agree with you, it is good to always maintain a positive attitude. People only kick you whilst you're down. Notice also how the bad luck is put on the grouchers, the ones who are always complaining, "you should have done this", "you should have done that". Make your own decisions, hold your head high and have faith, for they are the gift of the best and most successful man.
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
26 Jan 07
Faith is a good way to put it. Be strong in your convictions as each second in life cannot be brought back. So we have to have a positive attitude at all times.
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@rainbow (6761)
27 Jan 07
as my dad says "you can only dig it from where it's at" this is true, takeone day at a time and who knows what gifts tomorrow will bring, I like these old proverbs they give us valuable messages.
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@rainbow (6761)
18 Mar 07
Thank-you so much for giving me your best response!
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@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
18 Mar 07
Taking one day at a time is what we all do and we never know what tomorrow will bring. So we live each day in a happy frame of mind and try not to think of the bad in any of us except the good. Bless you.
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@rainbow (6761)
19 Mar 07
You are so right my friend! When I do get really down I think "lets just get through the day", when I wake up the next day it is new and fresh and after a nights sleep a lot of upset really does loose it's sharp edges, lol. Take care and big hugs to you!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
29 Mar 07
Awwwww Deeeky this is so true and I wish I could think positive but normally I still have to fight like mad and when I think positive it always turns out negative.
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@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
31 Mar 07
Even though your thoughts turn out negative sometimes at least you are starting in a positive frame of mind and that must be a good thing for you. Have a nice day from Deeeky.
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@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
18 Mar 07
Yes keeping a positive attitude is what we all should do, it's really hard sometimes but at least we should try.. thanks for the story, many times in my life what i though was a bad luck turned to be for the better, we just don't realize it at the time :)
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@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
19 Mar 07
That is correct. Life goes on I we think different things at the time without realising that event had to happen because it was the only option at the time. Staying focused really makes a difference.
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@kornordie (119)
• Romania
7 Jan 07
take a look around...lol how could anyone have a positive attitude...??...what world are you in...maybe I'll come visit you...:P
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@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
19 Mar 07
Come and visit me anytime.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
31 Mar 07
It seems that you cannot see the forest from the trees kornordie. Maybe it's time that you stopped and smell the roses. As Louie sings. What a wonderful World.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
31 Mar 07
I am a very positive person. I never let anything get me down....I always look on the sunny side of things. If something happens that seems to be negative I always say....it could be worse. Like attracts like....so if you think positive you have more of a chance that things will go right for you on the whole. I try not to surround myself with negative people although sometimes it is difficult because of circumstances. My roommate, for example, has no luck whatsoever. She is a perfect example of Murphy's law. I try to get her to look on the bright side of things but it is really very difficult. She is a wonderful person always willing to help others. She works 26 hours a day (or so it seems)...she is literally driving herself into the grave and she's only 62. When I try to sell my philosophy she says.....you're an American you don't understand....whatever that is supposed to mean. I am not a lucky person by any stretch of the imagination but I don't have bad luck either. I have no complaints on what life has bestowed on me and I owe it all to my positive attitude. PS: When you things are going really bad think of the following: I cried because I had no shoes..until I saw a child with no feet. Good discussion and great story.
@cool1girl (248)
• India
2 Feb 07
Wow! my sentiments exactly!I am one person who was shunned by my family and the world in my worst times.For a long time I longed for my family to look at me the way I wanted them to.It never happened.Now I only believe in god. I have deep faith in him resulting in complete disappearence of expectations of any kind from my family.I have good cordial relations with them but no matter what situation I am in,I rely on god's help and know that this too shall pass......and I will see good times again.My life has improved considerably and I am a happier person.
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@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
19 Mar 07
Sometimes we need our family around us in time of despair or problems. it is nice to be able to rely on them when times like that arrive at our door.
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26 Jan 07
Thanks for sharing that story, I really enjoyed it. In todays world where everything and everyone seems to charge around at 100 miles per hour, it can be difficult to remember to look on the bright side of situations and instead people become judgemental. I know I definately feel happier within myself when I try to look for the best in situations, and I find it makes the people around me happier too.
@nicolai (288)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
Laughter is the best medicine. God has given us trials in life for us to solve and guiding us to be a stronger and tough person,,,having a positive attitude will give us a feeling that we won't give up that esily it gives us hope and later on,,giving us the strength to solve our problems how big or small it might be =)
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
19 Mar 07
God? surely if your god is listening he/she would give me a hundred star LOL
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
30 Mar 07
thank you deeky for this story. it made me think and smile. thats what i try o xo evertime, think positive, take the good and trash the bad. i always experienced a positive moment after a bad situation, and i think that makes us grow. also think positive and be happy :-)
• United States
2 Feb 07
This is a great story, and the moral is true. What we focus on in our every day lives expands. If we are humdrum and focused on nothing but the bad stuff, we get the bad stuff, but if we focus on positivity and growth, that is what is returned to us. Thank you for sharing your story.
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
19 Mar 07
Humdrum is a word that I have not heard in a very long time. Thanks for reminding me that word existed LOL. It looks like that kind of word does not belong in happy peoples lives and probably with a lot of other words like that as well.
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@gegegelay (933)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
It's nice to have a positive attitude all the time. Although, I may say, it's hard.. because we live in a world that is full of complications, lies, deceit, and darkness.. but if you hold on to your faith and know that God is in control, then yes.. it's not that hard to live positively ;) I am sometimes not like that but the Lord teaches me to live like that.. not thinking of anything negative. It's my choice.. happiness is a choice ;)
@snap3231 (69)
• Canada
25 Mar 07
This has made me realize something, positive attitude is important thing in the world, and see what happened with Roger Federer, (1st Tennis player ranked) he said he always have positive attitude no matter what if he loses on one match. And he recently lose this longest winning streak on 41, which is 4th ranked of history. He didn't get mad, he'll continue to think positive. Now you see, he's in 1st rank who have a positive attitude.
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
25 Mar 07
If we have a positive attitude ALL the time then a negative attitude will never get a look in. Thanks for thet info about Roger. Have a nice day from Deeeky.
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