What is Sexy to you?

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@Shar11 (419)
United States
January 7, 2007 7:17pm CST
Sexy is a matter of opinion...It's more about personal preference than rules isn't it? What one person may find abosolutely sexy in another person, may totally turn off yet another person... When I was single, I noticed that when I went to a party for instances. I would always first notice the most visually pleasing guys...The men I found most physically attractive..But what happened more times than not, the ones I ended up with at the end of the night, the one I am spending the most time with is the one who has been making me laugh...I find humorous men irresistable really...Also a man that has kept my ole' brain stimulated with interesting conversation had the best shot of having my undivided attention... Yes, I find humor and intelligence to be the sexiest qualities in men... I dated a man I wasn't at first very physically attracted to..He was a great guy to hang out with..I had soo much fun with him that I continued to date him...Over a few weeks I noticed something happening..Every time he came to my door for another date, I found him more attractive...I remember after maybe our 4th date he came to pick me up and my stomach had a flock of butterflies swarming around inside it.."How did I not notice how gorgeous he is?" I asked myself I like to say now, I fell inlove with him inside out... What about you? What is sexy to you?
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@rick615 (413)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I think your picture is sexy. I think intelligent women are sexy as well as athletic ones. Smiling is sexy for most people. though on some it looks kinda evil. It's all what you are attracted to. I think your story is very common; it is for me as well. While I may occasionally drool over a Halle Berry on screen, I find women that I engage in conversation to have stronger appeal over time.
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@Shar11 (419)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Interesting...do you think this is something that also changes as we get older..our opinions of what is sexy? What I considered sexy at 18, then say at 25, and in the here now are all completely different... Maybe when I am 90, something simple as having your own teeth may be what does it for me LOL!
@justreal (2363)
• Canada
9 Jan 07
Sexy is when the person has a good character, confidence in herself, great smile and good body features.
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@Lady_Vincy (1538)
• United States
8 Jan 07
The sexiest thing to me is a nice smile and eyes. Those are just the sexist things to me.
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