Am I a cold hearted b?

United States
January 7, 2007 10:48pm CST
Okay here is the story. I meet up with an old high school freind on myspace. His sister was on there also. So I subscribe to her blog and site. At first her blogs were just Oh im mad at a freind, nothing alarming. Then she became engaged. Let me setup the situation. She is 25 works at walmart. Her now husband, was not working but just recently recieved a job at Albertsons. They were kicked out of there apartment and living with her father. Okay, so her blogs started out with oh Im so stressed out. I talk to ted, and he said he would get a job, but he is depressed. and he just starts to cry. Im so depressed (She complained about being depressed way before) Basicly he is not helping out. Then she became pregnate. So the wedding is getting closer. He has the nerve to disappear for a couple of days. He was picked up by the cops down the street from his exgirlfreinds. Then he asks if he can sleep with someone else before he gets married. I dont say a word. Then comes the blog that breaks the silence. she talks about how he doesnt listen and emplys that he hits her. So I write her. I tell her I think this is a really bad desicion. Anythign I said in the response was never malice like you are so stupid. nothing like that. I gave her the facts of what she herself had said. okay so they get married. Well I find out that she goes to the emergency room because she has allergies but has yet to go see a dr for her baby in those 4mths. She whines about how the dr didnt know what he is talking about and how rude he is. I respond. Stop being such a victim. What would a dr know. He has only had 8yrs of determination and edc compared to a person working at walmart. she needed to get her act togther and do whatever she had to do. Also implied that god forbid something might be wrong but she would not know. Well now she has called me a b and every other name. Im just sick and tired of listening to women play the victim. Dont we have enough with out abusing a child?
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