Is it good when friends vent out their probs to us?

Philippines
January 8, 2007 11:51am CST
Have you experience your friends venting out their problems to you? I have experienced these for several times....a friend came talking to me and we started discussing their problems and then eventually I end up giving them advice but I can still keep on thinking their problems involuntarily before I sleep and even after I woke up the next day. I know it's a good thing because we helped somebody by giving advice.....but--- Do you think it's good for us psychologically?
3 responses
@mcarps79 (1262)
• Uganda
9 Jan 07
yes...so many asked me and I try to provide best advice....really if ur advice will be usefull to other than u got gr8 happyness inside. That moment will be so much pleasure when u hv given very good advice and other welcome ur advice with full heart.
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
The good thing about it is that those kind of friends friends trust us and they are willing to take advice from us. thanks+
• India
8 Jan 07
I think you a true friend is someone who is there for you and you can go to when you need something or soemone. I think you can make great friends online. They are probably much like chidlrens friendships- innocent and naive.think that friendships develop no matter what the circumstances. Over the internet things like age, social stature, culture, looks, and so forth become irrelevant....you can make true friends even though its online, friendship has no gaps and boundaries, just have faith to your friend and everything will be fine..... Sure it is possible to have true friendship with someone on line. I think it is a different kind of friendship then someone you know face to face but I have a few friends on line that know things about me that some friends in real life do not know.... noticed that its much more easyer too speak too my online friend,then my other friend that lives near me..
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@usman400 (1587)
• Pakistan
8 Jan 07
Infact I am a good listener, thats the quality needed in u if ur freinds share things with u, and in return I would say its a reflex action u also tell them some of ur secrets too
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