Potty training

child - tears for the little people
United States
January 9, 2007 1:25am CST
My step - son is beginning to use the bathroom in his pants again. He is six years old. We can not figure out what is going on with him. He did this once before until we started getting on to him and then he finally quit. At first, we thought he had a problem until we took him to the docter and the doctor said that he was just being lazy. I can't figure out why he is doing this again or how to make him stop. We spend a lot of quality time with him so I don't think it could be to get attention. I don't know, maybe I am wrong.
3 responses
@amanda84 (263)
• Malaysia
10 Jan 07
do u talk to him ...bout the problem that u guys are having. or how bout give him reward..if he goes to toilet by himself - give him sum sweets. maybe it will works, give it a try
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• United States
10 Jan 07
I would try this but I don't like rewarding them for behavior that they should already be doing. It would be diffrent if he was just learning to go to the bathroom but he has known how for a while. I do want to thank you for commenting though.
@ktroth (378)
• United States
10 Jan 07
My 8 year old son still dribbles in his pants sometimes. For some reason, he waits until it's almost too late to use the bathroom. And when he's at school, I think he's so busy he just doesn't think to do it. It's very frustrating. And when we're at home I'll tell him to use the bathroom if I think he hasn't gone in several hours and he'll argue with me that he doesn't have to go. Yet when he finally goes into the bathroom, I hear him going. Ugh! Could it possibly be that your stepson is just "busy" and forgets or procrastinates? I don't think that is all that uncommon, especially in boys.
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• United States
10 Jan 07
I don't realy think that it is because he becomes busy and just forgets about it. He does it even when we are driving down the road. It's like he doesn't want to tell anybody that he needs to go. He has also been known to do it while he is watching t.v. and instead of saying something he just sits there.
@wmaharper (2316)
• United States
10 Jan 07
well, it is quite strange for a six year old to be doing this. First, i would go to another doctor and get another opinion, maybe your doctor was jsut being "lazy" and didn't want to get to the root of the problem? (or, maybe not, but at least you will have peace of mind about it) and if there is no medical reason, do some investigating, there must be some kind of trauma in his life causing him to do this? Is he doing it for attention? Ask him why he does it. Also, make him help clean it up.. if he truly is being lazy, then he won't want to do it anymore if he has to wash himself up and wash the laundry he makes. Good luck to you and yoru son..
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• United States
10 Jan 07
you have some good pointers. thank you so much for your advise and I think I will make him another appointment and then like you said, go from there.