would you be willing to give up your friend for a guy/girl you really love?

@ddm610 (117)
Philippines
January 9, 2007 10:13am CST
one of my friends have a big crush on this guy and everyone knows about it. eventually we met this guy and became friends with him. My friend thus always makes sure that he is close to this guy, calls him often and invites him to our parties. but just recently we found out that this guy does not like my friend, he only treats her as his sister. He loves someone else, and she is Anne, my other friend. Anne told me about this and said that she also had feelings for him but she hid it because she did not want our other friend to get hurt or get angry at her. Now that the guy has already told Anne about his feelings, she also wants to tell him that she loves him too. But doing so will ruin the friendship that she and our friend has enjoyed for many years. surely our friend will be mad because she had told every one since she saw this guy that he was hers. also, for Anne, loving the guy whom our friend loves so deeply may be considered as betrayal to our friend. if you were in Anne's shoes, would you give up your friend for a guy you love?
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@ladygam (563)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
Yes, I would give up a "friend" if I really love the guy. If the "friend" takes it against me then she really is not a friend, right? If I were Anne and I choose to refuse to acknowledge my feelings because of one person, I would be hurting more people: myself, the guy, and the friend herself because, in the end, she'll find out about it and the guy wouldn't still be hers.