ok ladies, be honest, is size important??

love, romance, sex, size - romance
@Shar11 (419)
United States
January 9, 2007 9:38pm CST
There are a million jokes about it...but what's the truth?For me it has more to do with what you DO with what you have... Actually making love to a very well endowed a man can be a bit uncomfortable.. but at the same time I will be honest and say it does add to the experience if the fit is right so to speak... I am guessing that "right fit" is basically what the average male has anyway:) So be honest if you dare...do you care about size?
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@Terra11 (82)
• United States
10 Jan 07
It's kind of a 'funny' thing. I notice guys with smaller ones really work harder (and do better) to please you lol. Guys with big ones can be jerks! However, I do get bothered if it is really small. But you're right it is very uncomfortable if they are too big. It is really great when you get the perfect size fit. You got some pics to upload with this topic? LOL jk
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@Shar11 (419)
• United States
10 Jan 07
lol sorry no pics!!
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• United States
10 Jan 07
You are so right Terra11. I was with a smaller one though and he was a huge jerk. His was bent too. Very strange. I did not say anything in order to be nice. I notice below yours, a lady speaks of wider. Yeah that is when it hurts. I do not like pain up in there. Scary. I was with two different ones who were my friends for over a year first. Both were huge and only one encounter. It was very uncomfortable. Come to think of it, they were not jerks, but I'm sure they were the exception. I don't mind being honest here. No big deal really. Nice to share.
• Pakistan
10 Jan 07
Yap Terra11 You are right about it and i agree with you on this. There is one thing for comfortable is the normal siz and tht is 5.5,by the medical its the normal and its very comfortable. LOLZZZZZZZ
• United States
10 Jan 07
i dont think the length really matters but the width kind of does lol.lil bitty ones do matter ,sorry to say guys but they dont do nothing for us ladies.jk as long as they can work it its all good lol
11 Jan 07
width definitely matters more than length... although I've never been with a guy who they say is medically average... always quite a bit larger than that... so I can't really say much about the smaller than average guys! I'm sure as long as they know how to work it, it would be good...
@shomomo (850)
• Israel
10 Jan 07
in that case I can know that I am well equip (embarrassing subject non the less)
@Shar11 (419)
• United States
10 Jan 07
oooh yes the width..great point...that does make a huge difference ( no pun intended)
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@DavidReedy (2378)
• United States
10 Jan 07
You know I'm going to be hated for saying this, but there is something to be said, about a woman's experience level...and the amount of...stretching she's endured to require a Ron Jeremy to be taken care of...
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• India
10 Jan 07
I am unable to understand what writer want to say here by the word size. what she want to say by this word.Let it clear first then any one can response to her.
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@Lady_Vincy (1538)
• United States
10 Jan 07
Well to me, size doesnt matter. It really depends on how he works it. Many guys can have it but not know how to work it and that doen't work. The better the work the better it is. Size is not a huge factor.
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@Shar11 (419)
• United States
11 Jan 07
really good point!! Although women may have some preferences, I think it's actually men that worry about this issue more...I could be wrong....but it seems this way...
• India
10 Jan 07
hi shar, ur question has really made me inquisitive abt one thing...which for some reason never occured to me before...does a woman also have sizes down there....like in terms of depth...width if it does...then the point of 'best fit' does not really imply the optimum size....a woman with small cavity wld love to have a guy with rather small size than have a supposedly 'optimum' and most sought after size...well i really dont know if i have added to the discussion..or started another one altogether...ha ha ha !!!
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@neer22 (121)
• India
10 Jan 07
i guess it is imp. why r u bothered.
@Shar11 (419)
• United States
10 Jan 07
no I am actually quite content right now...it was in issue in the a past relationship and I was curious about other women's thought on the subject :)
@runsgame (2031)
• India
11 Jan 07
it is great to see, that our hard works are being discussed nicely . carry on mams. Your satisfaction is our perfection and our perfection is your satisfaction . lol
• United States
17 Jan 07
I prefer the average size...it's really more about how you work it than how big it is. I have had one partner who told me he was bigger than most guys and not to be scared. I thought that he was joking (he was kind of an idiot) but when it came out, I was scared. I measured one day just becuase I had to know - 12 inch. It wasn't exactly pleasant. Another partner had way too much girth and it was painful. So average works fine for me.
• Canada
10 Jan 07
Right fit is definitely more important than size. My last bf was very well endowed, and he didn't know how to use it. He was my "first" and I bled for two days afterwords. Hurt like hell!!!
@Shar11 (419)
• United States
11 Jan 07
ouch!!!
• United States
10 Jan 07
No, size has nothing to do with it. It is how you use it that matters. You can have a guy with the biggest and not know how to use it. God that would suck but I'm sure it happens.
• India
10 Jan 07
Ok then if sum1's size is more than 6.5 inches how wud u categorise it..?? I suppose it is quite big enough to quench ur lust???
@berry9 (590)
• India
10 Jan 07
my my my fine topic but i am a vigin and i hardly know.but iv heard doctors on tv shows say,2.5inches is sufficiently enough.whwn a person's 'p' is cut off due to some disease even and only 2.5 inches remain,it is good enough to satisfy a woman.
@Shar11 (419)
• United States
11 Jan 07
that's interesting berry but it does seem possible..I think there are a lot of nerves right front and center and even just rubbing the right way could be satisfying
• United States
10 Jan 07
It's girth, not length, that matters.
• United States
10 Jan 07
I agree. And frankly, if it's too long, it's probably painful. LOL
• Australia
10 Jan 07
Size of the Bank account is what matters.
@acosjo (1903)
• Canada
10 Jan 07
That's a good one!
@ahmar2 (682)
• Pakistan
11 Jan 07
I agree I think it is behaviour of person which matters more than any thing else.
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
Well, size doest matter..its just depend if your comfortable wiht your partner.
• India
11 Jan 07
c i am a male size does matter but even people with small size can satisfy u better than those with a bigger one so it just depends on ur satisfaction.
• United States
11 Jan 07
for me it isn't because i'm small there and can't handle a lot of size. and yes it is much more important to know how to work it rather than how much you have down there. a well endowed man can be very uncomfortable and actually hurt you. i've never tried any man that is huge because i'm scared that he will hurt me.
@wesker311 (508)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
I dont think it matters to me if it's too small or too big as long as i know im doing it with the person i love and love me in return!
@chel_0525 (203)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
it's kinda hard to tell..but for me,it doesn't really count..no matter what size it's ok with me.as long as im happy with my partner and i'm contented with what he has.