do you have the courage?

i will not fall in love

yes

I would sure welcome suggestions,views and advise but after all has been said and done i would make my own informed decision and sure stand by it even though my parents and others may think otherwise

I believe that every child at a certain age has the right to pick who they want to spend the rest of their life with. Parents have a right to caution their children but you really only need to do it once and then let it go.

How old are you? Are you an adult? If so then your parents will have 2 get over it! I know harsh isint it but one thing most parents try to teach our kids is to make your own decisions and learn from your mistakes. Trust me if the relationship works out they will get over it, most parents want nothing more than 2 see their children happy and eventually over time they too will be happy that u r happy.

I would still marry him...

Parents should respect their kids options, because we create them to the world, not for ourselves...it is a hard lesson, but we have to learn it...

I would stick with my lover and still marry him

100% percent abandon that gal.... i expect my parents to have strong reasons for asking me to do so.... if i feel that the reason fair and reasonable...... thts it... but whats gonna happen to me..... miserable all my life! lemme hope thats not gonna happen to me....