HAve You Considered your PAST TRIALS in Life as "gifts" to help you understand ?
By jtmblossom
@jtmblossom (470)
Philippines
January 10, 2007 11:03pm CST
I believe in wounded healers. I know. I have gone through most kinds of "wounds". I've had traumatic experiences as a kid - family entanglements that reached the high courts,tragic deaths including my own firstborn twins,challenging marital trials due to my own infedility,deep financial problems,a serious illness...And this is just a partial list. But you know what? Bring me anyone with a haeavy load in life and chances are, I would understand him or her as if listening to my own story retold. "BEEN THERE. DONE THAT". But that is why,instead of a quick judgement,I cry with them. I embrace them. Because I feel the pain too. I may even have a tip or two on how to get out of it.....or live with it..
1 response
@BunGirl (2638)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I think often this is the case. While I am not glad I went through any of the awful things that have happened in my life, I know that these experiences have shaped me in one way or another. If I hadn't gone through any of it I would not be the person I am today.


