boy trouble

Canada
January 11, 2007 9:50pm CST
I've been dating this guy for a while now and we're so close but he always does things to hurt me soooo badly. For example, he promised me that he'd be there for me after my surgury because i needed him to take care of me, but instead he abandoned me and moved back in with his ex. I know how much of a fool i am for ALWAYS taking him back, but i just can't help it. I know that i can't trully love him because he hurts me so badly, but why is it just so hard to leave him?
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3 responses
@shorva (923)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
oh no...where's your pride?have a little pride.guys like him does not deserve your love at all.what are you thinking?you can do it!go leave him now!
• Canada
12 Jan 07
i know! i sometimes just want to smack my head off the wall for being so prideless...but it's just so hard to let go
@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
12 Jan 07
It sounds like a low self-esteem problem for you.While it is hard to find someone out there who loves you and will be there for you,it is very important to realize when a relationship has little/no chance for growth,accept it as a learning lesson, and move on.The pain now will hurt less than the hurt later.
• United States
12 Jan 07
Been there and done that. let him go , just say that is it and tell him to go away!!