relationships. a tricky thing in our life

Romania
January 12, 2007 1:17pm CST
i see many one sided relationships around me. either one doesn't show enough feelings towards the other , maybe there is a lack of feelings, either the other is so possesive that the other part can even breath or is not allowed to do anything alone. and here all the fight starts. i feel that if in a relationship once existed love, attraction...that should stay that way if possible anf if not one should let the other go, because both of them could become very miserable. don't you agree?
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@bogdanel (1208)
• Romania
15 Jan 07
Of course I agree.. I can see my relationship.. started sice 2 yers ago.. and we respect eachother .. and there is still love and atraction:) And.. we are doing not fine.. very very fine..
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@wakish (28)
• Mauritius
15 Jan 07
Relationships evolve as time passes by. Environment also plays a great role. If you live in a space where love is rarely being expressed or considered, your philosophy is something else and hence you tend to neglect sources of emotion and love. But, why are some relationships one-sided, is IMHO based on the personal perception and feeling of a person. You cannot force a person to love another one nor can you make that person be attraced to what you want. This is a purely personal thing/touch..Hence, i will say that there NO sensible explanation to this relationship. Greetz!
• Romania
15 Jan 07
thank you for answer...you have a personal way to approach the subject! :)
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Relationships are like beautiful flowers: they need to be watered with love and fertilized with kindness and consideration. The seed of love can sometimes break the hardest heart of stone and flower into a close relationship of love and kindness.
@hackman (178)
• India
15 Jan 07
see there is a boundary between all relations people can say how they can say some time relations may leads to danger but some times it will give love that's why it is tricky
@rovenn (69)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
i definitely agree with you..one sided relationships never really worked... people in this kind of relationship should let it go..its better that way.
• India
15 Jan 07
Well relationship is a thing which is a process . Not a point . Actually relationship is life . And there is no particular way to lead the life .
@34momma (13882)
• United States
12 Jan 07
those one sided relationships never ever work. everyone has to be on the same page or at least reading from the same book in order for any kind of relationship to really work
• Romania
13 Jan 07
relationships are very interesting...they arenever the same and you cannot find two relations being the same...you cannot expect the other to be exactly how you expected