Would You Stay In A Reletionship Just Because Your Partner is Good-Looking? Why?

@mishang (498)
Philippines
January 12, 2007 10:56pm CST
For me, i won't. He might be good-looking but it doesn't guarantee me true happiness and love. I am not generalizing, but I think people should look beyond looks. What is your opinion?
17 responses
• Australia
13 Jan 07
I would be the same, i couldnt be with someone just because they were good looking, i know some 'good looking' people and to be honest 'some' not all...are quite well... arogant, stuck up, or just plainly stupid. Anyways i think to feel something for someone goes way beyond physical appearance, it is what is inside that counts for true happiness...dont you think ?
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
that goes for me too... i've met some really head truners, but turned out to be really all looks and no brains.
@mariam74 (555)
• Egypt
13 Jan 07
No good looking is not the main thing in a partner he must have many other good things like loving me truely, treating me well, cares for me and had good temper and so many other things that are more important than his appearance inside him is more important than outside.
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
yes, there are more things in the person to be look upon than just basing everything with how great-looking he/she is.
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
18 Jan 07
Looks are just the outside layer of a person. Just like an orange or perhaps an apple. the skin and outter layer might look juicy and sweet but once you bite into that all you get is a bitter sour taste! The outside isnt important not to me anyway!
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@rovenn (69)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
i wont consider that.. its the beauty inside that matter most and as long as the couple have the love that makes them both happy and contented.. i say, those were the things that should be consider to stay in a relationship
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@mom2boys (334)
• United States
18 Jan 07
no no no!!! I love my husband he is great looking to me, but that is not what i want, i want a great person, who is loving, good husband a good father, trustworthy, and someone who can make me laugh, good looks is the last thing I am worried about, good looks never promises happiness!
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@anex84 (465)
• Bulgaria
18 Jan 07
I think the physical beauty is not so important as 'inner' one. I wouldnt stay only if she is beauty coz I will be not happy with 'just great looking chick' :D
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I find that if a person looked beyond the looks then they would find some great loving people that would treat them with respect and love them and if I was going for looks in a person I wouldn't have married my husband cause he isn't the sexiest thing but I love him and although we drive each other batty ocassionally we get along okay. I have also found in a few cases that some of the prettiest or handsomest doesn't always mean the nicest. Looks shouldn't matter at all in a relationship sure sometimes that is what atrracts but it should be the emotional connectional and other things because without them they are just another pretty face.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
i won't stay in a relationship if all he is, is a good looking face, no more no less. what will i do with that face of his. i will stay in a relationship if i am respected, if i am loved and if i love that person.
• United States
13 Jan 07
Hell no. If someone is good-looking but they drive me insane, I'm out. There are millions of good-looking people in the world, and I would rather not give someone preferential treatment just because they are good-looking. Too many people do, though, which is where the stereotype that the hottest girls are the most spoiled comes from.
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@kushal24 (200)
• India
13 Jan 07
well acoording to me looks should come at the end along with age,religion and other such crap.i would not stay with my partner if she is not faithful to me or is not able to understand me completely.such relationships dont work out
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• India
13 Jan 07
yeh i agree with you. there are many more things which i would look for in a person to get into a relationship. looks only wont help if your partner is not loyal to you. so looks would be a very second concern.
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• India
14 Jan 07
i think i shud not hv started a relation only if my partner was beautiful...she got to hv all qualities tat i m searching b4 i start a relation..n once started i wud never end tat relation...
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• United States
14 Jan 07
No I wouldn't stay with them over looks. One day we are all going to be old and wrinkly anyway. lol
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@zakeer (2)
• India
13 Jan 07
I agree with u, because if any one fall in love with any attractive person, it is just attraction,it is not true love. So try to find u r correct life partner.
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@ichampin (593)
• India
13 Jan 07
I would go for inner baeuty of the person, Good looking itslef doesn't mean that you are a good person from heart also, I would go for the inner beauty of the person, rather than focus my relationship on good looks.
@meoasis (720)
• Nepal
26 Jan 07
i think people should have inner spark of spirit and purity without ego and always ready to have a positive approach towards everything before of after any happening relationships is not about good loking i would choose good looking at last after i sense the trure inside world of the person i would be in relationship
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
I agree with you, I don't really care about the looks for I know they can be deceiving. Well, yeah it could be the first thing we would notice especially if you have just eyed on her..but as time goes by, I would carefully try to see the beauty deep within...the beauty of her heart and soul..a pure heart and a good soul is more important to me than just the facade she might be wearing...