Do you marry for love or for money?

@zemlene (354)
Philippines
January 13, 2007 6:37am CST
Definitely i would only marry for only one reason and that must be love. Money is not my everything but love is... it's what matters most. Love is seldom to come while money can be earned anytime.
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@mzbubblie (3840)
• United States
13 Jan 07
Some people take marriage to a whole nother level. Generally some people have forgotten about what marrying someone else means. If I married it would def be because I love this person unconditionally not because of money. I have a friend right now, she won't admit it but i believe she is marrying this guy for money. They have been dating about 3 months before they decided to get married. He already have a huge home, have a job where he makes 6 figures. She says she love him but her actions tells me different.
@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
O God, I hope their marriage will work out...let's just keep our fingers crossed.
• Ghana
13 Jan 07
we marry for love not for money, i petty those who marry for money because they will end up of broken heart.
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
a person should marry for love..not for money.all vows are null and void if you marry for convenience.you are cheating the person you married and you are cheating yourself. practically speaking a person should be financially prepared to settle down and raise family but not to the extent that you marry for money just to assure that you are well off in the future...
@tocika (970)
• Romania
13 Jan 07
First of all,I'll get married this year but I'll married for love not for money.We both haven't any help,we must to do all alone,without somebody else,but with love.Money?That money we both we would make together and we learn to faith for our love!Our love is better than all money from this love! I love very much my future husband and he loves me very much!
@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
congratulations! Best wishes and live a happy life together. God Bless.
@Opteron (1845)
• Italy
13 Jan 07
I would never marry a woman only because she is rich. Only if she is beautiful and I love her! Or at least I love her :D. My current girlfriend isn't so beautiful, but I love her and she loves me very much! She has money too...but I don't want her only for her money, because I have money too :o))
@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
well i guess you are lucky to have her man. Don't let her go.
@Junig1 (301)
• Barbados
17 Jan 07
Right now if I were to get married it would have to be for love, he doesn't have any money..lol
• United States
13 Jan 07
Quite honestly, love is all that matters. I've seen many ruined marriages in my time. My dad has been married 5 times, though my mom was #2. I have had 3 step moms. If any person can top that on the step mom meter, I really pity them. I do have a running joke that I tell people though. When I meet the right guy with the right bank account, I'm going for it. That is all rubbish though. I am very far from being a greedy gold digger. Love is the most important thing in marriage. If you can't love, I don't see it working out very long. I just hope that everyone can get the chance to fall in love atleast once in their life!
• India
13 Jan 07
ofcourse for love money doesnt matter in mariages .. so love and marry and dont marry and make money .thats y suggesstions.
• United States
13 Jan 07
Some people may marry for money..they've never had it, or they want more of it, so they find someone who can give them all of the money they want..and that's what they marry for. Others truly want love and marry for love. Sometimes people forget that marriage really is about love, it's not about anything else..it should stay about love.
@jennifer611 (2502)
• United States
13 Jan 07
Marrying for money is a big mistake I would say. If you take that vow to marry someone there has to be love or its not going to work. yes, money is nice to have but it doesnt really bring you happiness. not happiness that is going to last anyways. Love is important. without it, you will be miserable.
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
when i marry someone im definetly sure that id go for love than the money. your right money can be earned anytime and even if you marry the person you love, you can both work to earn more money. if i marry someone only because of money, i will never be happy and contented. i will surely be miserable, and i dont think our marriage will work.
@SetoKun (287)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I would definitely marry for love. Money can never be compared with love. I am just lucky that me and the one I'm planning to marry in the future have enough money so it will be out of the topic. Love will definitely be the reason.