Do you think it is right for a woman to tell a man she loves him?

Nigeria
January 13, 2007 12:09pm CST
It is a popular say where a come from that a man is a hunter and the woman is the pray,in that light should a woman chase a man?Let me here your opinon.
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@avs189 (1030)
• India
13 Jan 07
If you really care for the person whom u love and want to be with him for rest of ur life then u can definitely go aheadand propose him and share ur true feelings with him and express how u feel for him...
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@mikokre (132)
• Nigeria
17 Jan 07
In every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.There is also a saying that what a man can do a woman can also do better.I believe u are very farmilier with that. Going after somebody in the quest for a relationship or anything else for good is not a big deal.It doesn't matter who is going after who as long as theres a connection between them. For a woman to go after a man is as good and equall as a man going after a womam...........
• Nigeria
17 Jan 07
You if a woman come after you wont you think she is loose,i dont think it is the right thing to do.she she be able to wait for the man to make his approach
• United States
14 Jan 07
I have told a guy, I loved him. And I knew the consequences of doing so. I opened it. You cant blame someone for doing something to you, you can blame yourself most of the time for allowing it to happen. Thats the stance, I take on life in Certain situations. Many times a woman is the hunter and the man is her prey, I have been there myself. Several times.Many women have chased men, and caught them and still with them till this day, in great marriages. You have to know yourself, the consequences that could occur,and stay on your toes if you do so. It could be fun
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
thanks for your response,
@Junig1 (301)
• Barbados
14 Jan 07
It is so believed here too, my experience is that men like to be the 'chasers' and are often turned off by women who pursue them too hard. There are a few men these days that don't mind being chased but be careful about telling someone you love them too quickly...It's good to say what's in your heart but be sure before you utter a word!
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
beautiful thought!
• United States
13 Jan 07
No a woman shouldn't run after a man. If the man is interested the woman will know
• Nigeria
16 Jan 07
i have respect your views
• India
13 Jan 07
it is perfectly ok for a lady to tell a man that she loves him. if a man can tell a woman, why not a woman tell man. in this case also there should be no gender biases. there is no harm in a woman chasing a man either, as everyone has their own feelings and are free to express themselves in a free world.
• Nigeria
16 Jan 07
thanks for the response but dont you think it paints a negative image of the woman.
@anup12 (4180)
• India
13 Jan 07
Yes why not it is very much right to say for a woman there is no point why she cannot say.They can of course say and I think they say nowadays
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
What about her pride her degnity?
@kathy77 (7488)
• Australia
13 Jan 07
Yes I think that it is right for a woman to tell a man she loves him love is not a one way thing, but I do not think that a woman should chase a man.
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
Dont you think it make the woman lose her respect
@mjalingo (169)
• Nigeria
13 Jan 07
If cause yes! I man can do without a woman but a can't
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
thanks for your response
@mariam74 (555)
• Egypt
13 Jan 07
Ok sometimes yes and sometimes no for me in my country no we are the Arabs countries no because man feels that this woman is bad if she say to him that she loves him but in Europe woman can say it freely without any fear so it depends on culture and the place you live in, but in my point of view without culture problems she has the right to say what she wants isn't she a human bieng like him she can express her feelings like the man can but no way to change this here in our countries.
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
thank for the angle which you presented your opinon
• India
13 Jan 07
theres nothing wrong for a woman to tell a man that she loves him.she has full right to express her feelings. n she should not be shy in this competent n fats moving world.if she loves a man she shouldnt wait for him to come.she should hav the guts to go n talk to him.coz its better to hav loved n lost n tellin the person atleast once that u love him.
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
Dont you think he will advantage of her?
• India
13 Jan 07
ya sure.........its not abt men or women its all abt love ..so u shd or must say ur feelings to ur partner if u r realy in love.......bcoz once u get late..........u must no that love hurts like hell.
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
thanks for your response,but the situation is not with married but acquintant
@JJOD2007 (160)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I still believe that the man takes the first move to tell that she loves her. A woman should always wait and be showered with the attention.
• Nigeria
13 Jan 07
i respect your comment
• India
13 Jan 07
why not man? thats all feeling and responsibility should shared by both.then why not women share this to a men.after all when a couple would made both would love ech other same and share same responsibility.
• Nigeria
13 Jan 07
dont you think a woman should wait,
@yam219 (64)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 07
i a agree that a woman has the right to show her love to th man. in this world,man and woman are equal.. if a man can tell the woman he loves her,y the woman can' do the same thing? and telling antoher she loves him isn't a bad thing .rite?
• Nigeria
13 Jan 07
thanks for your tought
@kushal24 (200)
• India
14 Jan 07
well you know guys can sometimes be very insensitive and they cant see the very obvious things,well cant do anything about that,they are like that only.so if you dont want to lose him it is better to go and ask him for a date ,no harm in it
• India
14 Jan 07
i would say that both men and womens have right to say that
@limcyjain (3523)
• India
13 Jan 07
Gone are the days when man was dominant person. Today women are equal to men. You would find women commmanding men in actual life. Its surely okay for a woman to tell a man she loves him.
@crazy_me (588)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I do not see anything wrong in being the first one to profess your feelings. That is how you feel. So tell the guy you love him. If he tells you he loves you also but is just shy to tell you, then good. You now have a new boyfriend. Some guys find it hard to tell a girl he loves her. So make the first move, and who knows, he might be in love with you too. But if the guy does not love you, it is still okay. At least you told him how you feel about him. You would not live your life wondering what could have happened if you told him your feelings. Right? :)
@shywolf (4520)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I don't know how it could ever be wrong for one human being to tell another that they love them, regardless of gender. To me, love is a beautiful thing and if that feeling is felt so strongly that the woman or man can no longer hold back from saying it, then there is no reason why they should not say it out loud! ^_^ I also don't think that in today's society we have to view men as simply the hunters and woman as the prey. That seems a bit outdated. But that is just my view, and I mean no offense by saying it! ^_^