Young People Who Wear Reading Glasses - Do you get embarrassed?

@Pigglies (9329)
United States
January 13, 2007 7:36pm CST
I'm only in my 20s and I have had to wear reading glasses for years if I want to avoid eyestrain headaches. When I am reading a tiny restaurant menu and have to use my reading glasses, or worse, forgot them and have to ask around, my family gets all embarassed and other people are shocked someone so young wears reading glasses. A lot of people wear glasses, so why the stigma with reading glasses? What is so bad about them? I'll admit that sometimes I buy the cheap ones grannies use, but today I just got a really cute pair so that I'll actually wear them to work. I don't get embarassed easily though, because apparently, I am a walking embarrassment. :) So it just doesn't bother me. But sometimes other young people who wear reading glasses see me actually wearing mine and tell me they wear them too, but are so embarrassed and hide it.
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• United States
14 Jan 07
There's nothing wrong with wearing eyeglasses.There's no need to be embarassed about.I do have an eyeglass but i dont wear them all the time because im not comfortable wearing one.I only wear them when reading or when im using the computer coz if i dont i'll have a headache later on.
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Yeah, that's why I wear them, to avoid the headaches. I think I will start wearing them to work because even though I don't really have to read at work, I am looking at forms. Sometimes I get bad eye strain headaches and then it ruins the whole night or most of it. I used to have to wear glasses all the time, and I just didn't do good with it either. But part of my problem is that I have one good eye, so with glasses, it narrowed my field of vision too much because of the frames. If the glasses could wrap around my head, I could keep my 135 degree field of vision and see clearly too.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
14 Jan 07
Why would having to use reading glasses be any different than wearing glasses for distances? Makes no sense. If you are not embarassed by using them why on earth should anyone be embarassed for you? Makes no sense. There are many other things worse than wearing reading glasses. I have seen small children hardly learning to walk wearing glasses that magnify their eyes but I have never seen their family embarassed by this. There is nothing to be ashamed of it is merely a defect in your sight.
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I guess because people associate reading glasses with old people. I used to wear coke bottle lens as a kid. I'm actually much happier now that I only wear reading glasses, not glasses all the time. My family is the type who wants to see perfection. And a defect like wearing glasses isn't a good thing in their eyes.
• Indonesia
14 Jan 07
why did you embarrased? you can choose sporty mode.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I only tend to get embarrassed if I forgot my reading glasses at a restaurant. Because everytime it ends up that I will have to ask some old person to borrow theirs. The really bad thing is when I'll borrow them from someone older, and they aren't strong enough! When I was in high school, none of my reading glasses were really all that cute. I am a very frugal person, so I'd buy the 3 for $10 kind. The ones I got today look very cute, but were $20. I'll have to take a photo of them, they're greenish blue, don't have the little nose pieces, and are somewhat thick framed, but very stylish. They almost just look like how regular glasses look now. But I'll only wear them when reading. Unfortunately, the cute ones like that don't come in higher powers. But they're good enough for just reading 12 or 14 point font. For fine print, I'll need something else.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
14 Jan 07
I'm jealous. I just got my eyes check last week and have been told that just the lenses (at wholesale price as a friend of mine imports Rosenstock lenses from Germany) are going to cost me about $160.00 per lens. Add to this the cost of cutting them to my prescription it will be pretty close to $400 for a pair. Fortunately I don't have to buy the frames because my friend also imports them and she is giving them to me. I said I would pay but she said it wasn't necessary because the model I chose is no longer considered in mode now so she probably wouldn't sell them anyway.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Wow! That's expensive. I wanted to see about getting those colored glasses for dyslexia before, and it's about the same price, maybe more but I don't know the cost of frames. My friend that has them said hers are usually $500 to $800. But the visit to the eye doctors that can do those is the expensive part, apparently costing around the same as the glasses! I want to get a regular eye exam again sometime. But I'm somewhat afraid and also kind of afraid of the cost.
@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I wear glasses also when i drive or watch tv. but when i read I have to wear them aslo. When you get older the print on labels and on the bottles are really hard to see , dont no why they have to make everything so little to read.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I don't know why everything has to be so small. I guess to save paper and space. On my computer, it's all pretty big since I have a 19" monitor. At one point, I had a 22" monitor. Was nice until it stopped working.
@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I wear glasses also when i drive or watch tv. but when i read I have to wear them aslo. When you get older the print on labels and on the bottles are really hard to see , dont no why they have to make everything so little to read.