I have had enough of my mom's boyfriend, and not sure what to do.

United States
January 14, 2007 5:16pm CST
Hey, Everyone...My mom and her boyfriend have been together for A quiet some time period, off, and on, and he is always doing something that hurts my mom, or that is disrepectful, but yet my mother keeps letting it happened, and it seems like every month or two they are in A fight, and she says she has nothing to do with him ever again, yet she goes right back to him, And lately, He has got himself in A bad spot, where he had to move to Gleason, and rent an house, and even though he has his own place, he is sitting here, and staying here CONSTANTLY with my mom, and me, and it is starting to aggrivate me, he is starting to think that he owns this place or something, and like he is A boss around here, when he doen't even own or pay anything on this house, He eats every meal hear, Showers heal, Sleeps here, His son is now living with his Grandmother, Because he is too darn lazy to spend time with his son, and bring him down, or have anything to do with him, which really ticks me off, cause he rather stick his butt here, I have tried everything, I have tried telling my mom how I feel, and then she says just get used to it, so I confronted him that I didn't like what he was doing, and he just gets an attitude, and says "Get used to it." Which is really irritating...I am not for sure what to do anymore...I have tried everything in the book that I could think of that is even polite to do, And now I am asking everyone on here, What should I do, Cause I have ran out of ideas.
3 responses
@SageMother (2277)
• United States
15 Jan 07
At 21 its pretty simple, you move out. There is no point in your sitting there watching this guy suck away your mom's life and you are too old to take orders from her love interests, unless the age on your profile is way off. Find someplace to live on your own or find a roomate. I don't think there are boarding houses around here in Denver but there may be where you are. you can get a room and have your own space that way. If you have another parent or relative who can help out, you might be able to buy a small condo and get started on your own life. Sounds like its time for you to leave!
• United States
16 Aug 08
Yeah, it was kind of way off. But, most people don't even believe my real age anyways when I tell them, they think I am too sophisticated.
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
Well the best that you can do is to find a place for you. If I'm in your situation, I will look for a place for myself. Better that way.
@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I am sorry to hear about your situation but it seems like your mom does not care about he treats her or you and I think the best thing for you to do is find another place to live so you do not have to deal with him. She is obviously not going to do anything about it and the home belongs to her so there is not much you can do about it. It sounds like your mom might be lonely and is afraid of being alone if she breaks up with him or tell him to beat it. Your mom should be thinking about her best interests as well as her own daughter.
• United States
16 Aug 08
Yes, and I know that I can't really change anything anymore. She is still with this CREEP, and getting MARRIED to him next febuaray.