love

@ebukas (135)
Nigeria
October 4, 2006 5:17am CST
I am a guy and im love with a girl in my hood i loved this girl all my heart i am even ready to die for her and she loved me back the way i did but something happened last week,i caught her unaware making love with my elder brother,she denied at first when i asked her but later acepted and appologised saying that it was my bother that seduced her,in return i asked my brother he acepted and appologised saying that it was the girl that seduced him,now tell me who am i going to belive or trust now. should i continue with the relationship or should i avenge my brother the same way in the same way he pitched me pls tell me cos im confuse pls!!!!!!!!!!!!
1 response
• United States
14 Oct 06
First of all. I'm so sorry this happend to you.I know the feeling because this also happend to me. It is an undecribible hurt.I was with this man for 13 years, and he did the same thing to me. I dumped him, even though it about killed me, and I moved away. As far as my sister? We went to counseling and she figured out that it was her own invey that almost tore the family apart. At first I thought to myself. " What's wrong with me that she did this to me " It wasn't me who had the problem. It was her. As far as the man I was with. I dumped him not only because of what he had done to me, but my trust factor went out the door, and I knew I'd never trust him again. Yes it will hurt for a long time, but you have worth, and when it's time, I would bet you will find an amazing women WITH VALUES! Never underestemate what the future holds for you. You deserve the best, and do NOT except any less.......