What is a soul mate?

when two hearts beat as one - my boyfriend and I banging on the drums.
Melbourne, Florida
January 15, 2007 9:30am CST
Do you believe in soul mates? Do you believe that two souls can agree to find each other in this life? What if I were to tell you that we have many soul mates?Every person in your life is a soul mate, and you have lessons to learn from each other and past karmic debts to pay. Have you ever met someone whom you feel you have somehow known all your life? This is a soul mate, and you have come toghether for a reason and to love one another undconditionally. Have you ever met someone and had an instant hatred for them? This is also a soul mate, with some bad karma. And you have come together in this life to forgive and love one another unconditionally.
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• Egypt
9 Feb 07
Soul Mates! - Soul Mates, you can find them in their kisses!!!.
Lucky is he/she who finds his/her soul mate. Your soul mate is the one who can endure your pain, the one who shows astonishing intelligence in knowing when you are being helpless. He/She is the one you can rely on when you seem to be swimming against a current that is sweeping you backwards however hard you struggle. Every person has a soul mate with the same string of emotions woven together. Just look around you and stop being like an ant, which can see small objects but not large ones. This is my own opinion about the soul mate but, I respect also other opinions.
@bicklelady (1404)
• United States
8 Feb 07
I feel like my hubby is my sole mate. I also have a wonderful best friend that I have had every since I was 14. I call her my side kick sole mate.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
6 Feb 07
Yes you have said rightly we do have soul mates. This I realise when in train suddenly you start liking a fellow travellar and become good friends without knowing one another, that makes me think may be we were related in our past lives.
• United States
6 Feb 07
I so appreciate your discussion on this topic! Soul Mate is a term that I avoid at all costs due to its over-use, mis-use, and abuse. The fact that you just simplified and clarified it so well is most wonderful. I wish that you could make a poster of this and hang it on every corner of every town ~Donna
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
oh yes i have friends that i could say are my soulmates. a soulmate does not have a gender but it doesn't mean we will be lovers,am not into it. as long as that person affects me positively or otherwise , i consider him or her as a soulmate because a soulmate helps make our soul better to bring in the afterlife.
@rinsvs (13)
• India
7 Feb 07
I believe in the concept of soul mates. I always look for the traits of a soul mate in the people I fall in love with, and believe me, I hve fallen in love with quite a lot people. But unfortunately, none of them turned out to be my soul mate. But I just keep going. That's the fun with the idea of soul mates. so many possibilities, and the experiences that come along!
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I could easily believe that and that we are put here on earth to balance all that is around us. I have come to believe we all have purpose but it is up to us to choose to fulfill it.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
20 Jan 07
I don't know if soul mate is the right phrase.I think there are kindred spirits,spirits who recognize one another.Kindred spirits are people you have known from past lives and I agree with the karmic side of it.
@suren2k6cse (2621)
• India
1 Feb 07
i can tel oonl on that time
• India
21 Jan 07
yeah I believe in soul mate , if you love someone ,i think you love his/her body as well as his/her soul also.
@MAX1966 (1029)
• Netherlands
21 Jan 07
well... it could be true.. but can you explain what karma is to you?
• India
3 Feb 07
my soul mate would be my wife....i would share all my secrets ,happiness and sorrow with her....
@Sweetpeas (738)
• Australia
3 Feb 07
I agree with you there, I believe I have found a couple of soul mates in my life the most special both being my partner and my son. I definatly feel like i have met both before and the funny thing is we all finish each others sentences and seem to be thinking the same thing. I know people would say thats because we live together lol, but the first time i saw my fiance he was walking across the work carpark and I knew we were meant to be together, sounds silly i know but its true and even then id felt like i knew him for years, comfortable, at home even :). I truelly feel those who do find a soul mate or two are truelly blessed and I wish everyone out there the very best in finding yours xx