cheating...

United States
October 4, 2006 8:08am CST
When your going through a rough spot with the one you love, do you think its wrong to cheat on them, to try to get a clearer view of things?
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5 responses
@em12ma (396)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Cheating IS NEVER an answer more so a solution to a relationship that's going through a rough spot. It is WRONG in every aspect. The best thing you can do is to seek out advice from someone you trust who can give you a proper direction. Perhaps your parents will do? Or someone you know who might give you some clearer view on how you would handle things out with your love one? Or perhaps talk things out with your love one? Whatever your option, never consider cheating as your recourse as it will just cause you trouble in one way or another.
• United States
5 Dec 06
thank you great reasponse, I agree with you....sometimes you just get bad thoughts in your head!
@vhansen (2029)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Yes,I do.It doesn't clear up anything only complicates things.I know this from experience.Draging someone else into your relationship is as bad as staying in that relationship 'for the kids'.Don't do it,just don't.It's not worth the pain and heartache it can cause.Better to work it out or make a clean break.
• United States
5 Dec 06
yeah Ive figureed that out too!! I never thought it was right, but you know gives you ideas!
• United States
1 Dec 06
Cheating will never make things clearer. It will just confuse things more. Cheating is wrong, period. It doesn't matter if you are married or just in a relationship. IF you made a committment to anothe person you should honor it. If you find yourself interested in another person, there is a problem or more in that relationship. Talk about it. Deal with it. Then if you still want to be with that other person. End the relationship, first. It is the only honorable and honest thing to do.
• United States
2 Dec 06
I agree with you...but i dont think that if you find some one cute that its wrong. Its wiered up until this summer I never even looked at another guy, never acknowledged them but my fiance and I were going through a rough spot and I dont know if thats what peeled my mind open, but I started meeting cute guys...just as long as you dont touch and i didnt...now these cute guys are my friends and my fiance and I hang out with them occasionally...I dont know its wiered!
@nancygibson (3737)
• France
14 Oct 06
how would cheating help It just puts you in the wrong so any resolution is difficult
• United States
14 Oct 06
I completely agree! Just want to know how everyone else feels!!!
@mistypq (673)
7 Dec 06
If you can even think about cheating its plain you cannot love your partner? I do not want to upset you but you must look at your relationship there is a big problem, perhaps you have fallen out of love! best wishes.