cheating...

Cheating IS NEVER an answer more so a solution to a relationship that's going through a rough spot. It is WRONG in every aspect. The best thing you can do is to seek out advice from someone you trust who can give you a proper direction. Perhaps your parents will do? Or someone you know who might give you some clearer view on how you would handle things out with your love one? Or perhaps talk things out with your love one? Whatever your option, never consider cheating as your recourse as it will just cause you trouble in one way or another.

Yes,I do.It doesn't clear up anything only complicates things.I know this from experience.Draging someone else into your relationship is as bad as staying in that relationship 'for the kids'.Don't do it,just don't.It's not worth the pain and heartache it can cause.Better to work it out or make a clean break.

how would cheating help It just puts you in the wrong so any resolution is difficult

If you can even think about cheating its plain you cannot love your partner? I do not want to upset you but you must look at your relationship there is a big problem, perhaps you have fallen out of love! best wishes.

Cheating will never make things clearer. It will just confuse things more. Cheating is wrong, period. It doesn't matter if you are married or just in a relationship. IF you made a committment to anothe person you should honor it. If you find yourself interested in another person, there is a problem or more in that relationship. Talk about it. Deal with it. Then if you still want to be with that other person. End the relationship, first. It is the only honorable and honest thing to do.