wat do u think love is friendship or else???????

India
January 15, 2007 10:52am CST
i m asking all of u tht wat u all think love is friendship or something else. means for loving someone we first have to b a gud friend of tht girl/boy...... as we all know tht friendship can help us to know likes n dislikes of tht person n also many more things so to love someone we have to be person's friends or not?????????????? tell me
3 responses
@Darkwing (21583)
15 Jan 07
I agree that to grow to love somebody, you probably first have to be their friend. You bond, grow to know each other's likes and dislikes, as you said, and eventually, grow to love each other. This provides a very solid foundation for love, but it's not infallible. Having said that, I also believe in love at first sight. I believe in magnetism, because I've been there. What triggers it off, I'm not sure, because I'm not one who goes for looks. I have to know a person's soul to really love them, but maybe there's some magnetic force that tells you you have to be with somebody. I can walk up to a person, look them in the eyes, and if they fix their eyes back, it gives me a little trigger which I can't explain. Thank you for the discussion. It's very interesting.
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
Yes!...for me, love is just an another stage of friendship!...It is the stage where you are committing higher form of love!...It's nice to become friend first because it is one way of knowing each other!...It's the best first step to make!...lolz
• India
15 Jan 07
Love is a special feeling that suddenly surrounds you when you look into a person's eyes or even in their presence. Love is friendship,companionship, about understandind each others problems and most importantly trust