Should a wife be given freedom enough to go out with guy friend?

United States
January 15, 2007 2:49pm CST
Should a wife be given freedom enough to go out on Vacations with her guy friend?
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4 responses
@sedel1027 (17851)
• United States
15 Jan 07
If you trust your wife, she should be able to go anywhere she wants, with whomever she wants without you questioning her.
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
Yes i agree trust should always be a huge factor in relationships!
• United States
15 Jan 07
well thats true that if you trust your spouse..you should give them some freedom..however dont you think letting them go out on a vacation alone..is a lil to much..i mean come on we all can make mistakes and i think if you let her go alone then you are kinda leaving a chance for a mistake to be made which could be regreted in future...what you think?
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
I don't think that it would be fair to say that letting her go leaves room for mistakes. If love is true and real there are never mistakes and you should have faith in her. I have a best friend that is a guy and we even sleep in the same bed alot of times and he respects me enough as a friend not to even come close to touching me. If my spouse even had a problem with my male friends i think i would have to leave him personally because to me this is proof that you do not trust and love me no matter how much you say it!
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
I believe that any married couple should have enough trust and love in their relationship to trust their partner. If you do not trust your spouse then you should look in the mirror and think a little because without trust there is NO LOVE. This is a fact as well because the basis of love is trust and your love will always remain strong if you base it on this!!
• United States
15 Jan 07
If you are not allowing you wife then it doesnt mean your not trusting her.I could also mean you dont trust her friend.
@sedel1027 (17851)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Even if you don't trust the friend, if you trust your wife then you know nothing will happen and you would not disallow her to spend time with the friend.
• United States
15 Jan 07
What if you see your wife going out with a person who is all the time.Offcourse you trust your wife and this is your trust that you never stopped her to make a friend like it But dont you think it is too much to let your wife go out with him?
@rosie_123 (6117)
15 Jan 07
Yes. No one one owns anyone else. If she wants to go on holiday with a friend (either male or female)then let her do so - without trust a relationship is not worth having anyway.
• United States
15 Jan 07
It is not about owning someone.Its about love.May be a person is so much possesive and possesiveness also come when you love someone crazily.Thanks for responding.
@sedel1027 (17851)
• United States
15 Jan 07
You just said that this is not about owning, but then you bring up possessing people. Being possessive means "the desire to own or dominate". If you see your wife as a possession, then you don't love her and you do think you own her.
• United States
15 Jan 07
Sedel imagine if a thing which is the most precious to you,This is the human nature that he is possesive about the thing which is most precious to him.Even you would be possesive about somethin.
@xair88 (80)
• Pakistan
16 Jan 07
Its all a matter of trust. And I think that trust keeps a marriage alive. So if someone trusts their wife, then he would have no problem with the whole issue. If he has issues, then trust is lacking in the relationship.
• United States
16 Jan 07
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