How gossip helpful not wasteful ?
By BRIJENDRA
@BRIJENDRA (926)
India
January 16, 2007 12:05am CST
Generally one thinks that gossip is wasteful of time . It ruins the gossipers.But in my opinion , it is helpful in enhancing the knoweldge in the following ways :
(1) It helps in developing the courage of speaking.
(2) It helps in facing the different kind of people.
(3)One can gather many inputs of knowledge in gossip depending upon one's aptitute.
(4)One can develop the logic/art of counteracting.
If somebody know more, may please be shared....
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4 responses
@spangles94 (546)
• United States
16 Jan 07
how does gossiping help you to develop courage of speaking ?? the whole reason that people are gossiping is because they are too scared to go staright to the person they are gossiping about , and it dont help you face different type of people cause when your gossiping to others about somone else well that just leads them to assume that your a gossip and thats NOT good , nobody resepcts a gossip and if they are gossiping with you they will gossip about you , I wish others would realize this .
~M~
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@BRIJENDRA (926)
• India
19 Jan 07
Hi, well.
Many people donot know how to express their ideas well in front of masses. They are many things in their inner heart to speak but lack of courage they do not speak.In gossiping there is no restriction how one speak,how correctly one expresses,how truth their statement is and so many things.Because of these one gradually develop the courage of speaking and facing the in frront people........
@faylinn_chaeli (1619)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
A gossip, to become helpful or meaningful should have atleast some relevance to the current information and issues regarding important matters. But if the gossip is just about the life story of your neighbor, "how he's wife left him, etc.," then it is none of your business. The bottom line is, it's all about the Topic that you are discussing.
