What you will do if your beloved tells you a lie?

@bogdanel (1208)
Romania
January 16, 2007 2:03am CST
Let's say that you find out that your girlfriend/boyfriend told you a lie once.. what you will do?
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@ichampin (593)
• India
16 Jan 07
I don't know what type of lie you are talking about, but if its a lie that could change my life forever i would be happy forever and but she tells me lie when i asked her about it, then obviously i would be furious over her. and if its a lie for my own benefit then i think i'll let it go. The important thing is to understand the need to lie, what makes her lie to me this what i'll find first of all. and if its been done some time back then thinking about that lie after sometime is not a good idea, past is past, we should look into the future and present.
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@bogdanel (1208)
• Romania
16 Jan 07
Good point of view! Thanks for response!
16 Jan 07
It would completely depend on what the lie was about. If he was cheating on me or something like that he would have to go but if it was only a little lie that did no harm i would forgive him.
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@bogdanel (1208)
• Romania
16 Jan 07
I think you're right! :)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
If his reason is reasonable enough and has explained why he has lied, then i'll forgive him...
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@bogdanel (1208)
• Romania
16 Jan 07
Good!:) Thanks for response..
@utanyto (413)
• Romania
17 Jan 07
I will get mad, because i can`t be agree with lies.at the next lie, we`ll be "divorced" .One she lies you, she will always do! So, maybe you chose another girl than to spend all your life with a lier.
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@shorva (923)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
all couples lie at each other at one point or another i think. and if i find out my guy lying about something then i'd confront him, of course i'd feel bad, but i would have to know why he lied in the first place to see what he says.
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• India
17 Jan 07
i will find the reason why she lied to me and solve her problem and try to make out things in a better way. little bit of chit chatting is ok yaar if you accept in a shorter span of time
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Everybody lies and were not God to claim that "I never lied, since birth". But what will you do if the one you love tells you a lie. Examine the circumstances surrounding the actual crime (the lie telling) and what would you react if he/she tells you truth. If both of you are really in-love forgetting and starting sharing each others' problems, foul-ups, bitter secrets will be easy. TIMING is always the keyword.
• Romania
16 Jan 07
I would talk to her, and say that she has dissapointed me, that I was trusting her 100% and so on, to make her feel very guilty and never do that again. .
@oshoke (57)
• Nigeria
16 Jan 07
All i will do is just let her know that i know that she lied to me, but that i have forgiven her, but that not time she should always tell me the truth no matter how bad it is. Thats the only way you to win her trust and sustain he relationship too.