I can never understand men

South Africa
January 16, 2007 7:23am CST
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years, chilled a while, gave myself a few months to heal and get over him. So I thought I was ready to date again, when I agreed to go on a date with this guy i work with. our first date, he stood me up. It took him a whole week to apologise, i had to drag it out of his mouth. So he finally did, and we set for another "meeting", guess what, he stood me up again. And you know what's the saddest thing? We work in the same office, an editorial department of a newspaper organisation. I have run out of options, but this time around, I won't beg for an apology. girls what do you say? Guys what's your take on this?
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6 responses
@urbandekay (18278)
16 Jan 07
That man is just not interested in you all the best urban
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@ano460 (649)
• United States
14 Feb 20
That's it, interest is very low.
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
Forget him. He apparently values his pride and macho appearance more than he does his relationship with you. I'm a guy and I know how it is when I'm protecting my ego. The first time, when he wouldn't admit outright, was acting somewhere on the border of defensive. The second time is downright inconsiderate and rude.
• South Africa
16 Jan 07
very well said. The thing is we sometimes make excuses for people. We just keep hoping that everything works out in the end. It is also good to hear what we should hear, at times. I'm done with him.
@forfein (2507)
16 Jan 07
SIMPLE!"! Forget this boy!Go for someone else!
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
16 Jan 07
I also agree to forget him and to find someone else. Sometimes in our life we come across some relations and guys who are not worth. We have to go for someone who is worth than who is not worth. We should always go for real gold than that is not gold and all that glitters are not gold. We should always spend our time for someone who will cry for us and not for someone whom we will cry for.
@tanujarneja (2829)
• India
16 Jan 07
well i wud say its all yours decision.....think over it before you do anything
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
guys have different variety... all we have to do is to find someone that we can accept no matter who or what they are...
@ano460 (649)
• United States
14 Feb 20
Try to relate with people who really likes you, you will not get much problem relating, but don't use it as advantage against them