Relationship
By ladyheart25
@ladyheart25 (1815)
Philippines
57 responses
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
yes i do agree. commitment is better than just flirting but u can choose whichever u like.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
how can u say so? In knowing a person u need a lot of time to be with him, enjoy his company and see if u will be a good match. In short term, sometimes there are not much feelings involved but just think about fun.
@KIMBERLYC29 (267)
• United States
16 Oct 06
that is so true and if you nor him keeps it exciting then the other person will start looking else where.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
16 Oct 06
yes long term is fine though sometimes it can be boring but partners must find way to make it more exciting.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
Yes i agree, so every person must be creative enough to always manage and keep the fire burning. Unless, you want to keep the person right?
@baronarthur (4187)
• Indonesia
17 Oct 06
I think someone who really wants a good relationship, always prefer a long term. But, it is not as always as we want.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
i agree but i believe all relationships always start in short term then suddenly as we happen to know the person and realize ur a perfect combination together, it will gradually pursue longterm.
@baronarthur (4187)
• Indonesia
17 Oct 06
Yes. From short to long, sometimes we must learn from the short relationship.
@RideCuStomy2k (917)
• United States
14 Oct 06
A mix of both. When you first start dating it should be short-term and than gradually go long-term. You need to try a variety at first to see who you want to settle down with.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
18 Oct 06
yes ur right about that. If it happen u realize the relationship is working, then it gradually proceed to long term.
@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
15 Oct 06
I would always prefer a long term relationship but, never seemed to be good enough for one.
@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
18 Oct 06
It just seemed liked Ipicked the wrong person to be with. I have given up know I am to old.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
Why do u say so? It will be good enough as long as u keep it the relationship alive and burning. But in some cases, long term relationship still fails and im aware of that.
@utkarshkks (664)
• India
18 Oct 06
I go with the long-term relationships,you must get settled in life rather than wondering!
@Bixemacher (2)
• United States
14 Oct 06
Long term!!! I'm 32 and I have been dating the same woman for 4 years. We will be getting married soon. I know that the time it took me to find a mate who I can spend the rest of my life with was worth the wait. To know that I can share my life with someone who has the same values as I and will support me in my endeavors. At the same time she will let me be the same for her. A long term relationship takes effort and work to develop. And once it is found it reqiures even more work to keep. In the long run however, there's no substitute for the feeling of security and love that a dedicated partner will give you. Communication and openess is two of the bedrock characteristics that my sweetheart and I share. And every day we're improving. Good luck with your choices and best wishes.
@khassandra2006 (490)
• Philippines
15 Oct 06
Hi Bixemacher, more power to you and your fiancee. It's really good to know that there are still men who are like you. Your fiancee is lucky. I've read your message and I said I just have to give a little comment. lol I hope all men are like you. Here's wishing both of you goodluck!
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 06
I think most of us will look for long terms instead of short terms relationships on whatever things it involved.
@Kalippukidilam (451)
• India
15 Oct 06
i prefer a long time, sincere relation to a short term relation. but short terms relations can also be sweet, if sincere.
@HemaSrini (435)
• India
17 Oct 06
Long term relationship.
First of all it will take some time to understand each other in any kind of relationship. Once you thoroughly understand then that relationship would be a healthy one so it will continue sometimes till the lifetime. So, I prefer long term relationship.
But at the first sight only you cannot decide to have that because we might lack understanding and the relationship would turn out to be a short one.
@bhbirdie6 (1765)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Long term. Definitely. I love commitment and dedication. And I love the trust that comes with a long term commitment.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
yes i agree but better be careful with short term relationship, it also hurt sometimes.
