WOULD YOU..........

India
October 5, 2006 3:37am CST
...get married to somebody from a different culture and what do you believe the main problems to be in such a situation?
10 responses
Riazor
@Riazor (96)
• Italy
5 Oct 06
Yes, diffirent culture must to be an appael, not a problem!
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
5 Oct 06
how about different religion, as I believe ...sooner or later they resurface.
Lackingstyle
@Lackingstyle (7509)
•
15 Oct 06
If one has respect and tolerance it shouldn't be a problem.
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
17 Oct 06
One can tolerate things at certain level but.... One cannot change whole for even his or her love... (I don't think so..) Ya that's true one should respect eachother's religion/ community. And should not give sarcastic comments.. This can spoil their life...
SunnyDays
@SunnyDays (1070)
• Bahamas
5 Oct 06
I was married to a man from a different culture and it didn't work due to the fact that we grew up with a completely different background and that my Husband was unable to accept me as the independant woman I am.... I think acceptance of each others differences, same as long talks about the expectations and a lot of tolerance might be the key ..
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
5 Oct 06
Problems arise when there are no compromises reached, which are things that should be sorted out early in the piece, or as soon as the problem is discovered. They only re-surface if they weren't fixed properly in the first place, whether that be through selfishness or too much selflessness.
SunnyDays
@SunnyDays (1070)
• Bahamas
5 Oct 06
I agree
lalith1312
@lalith1312 (491)
• India
17 Oct 06
why do you think problem will surely arise in different culture marriage?...its not so...you should start living the way your partner does...
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
17 Oct 06
Very rare people wants to live the way their partner does... Most of them expect other's to change... It's been practically seen...
clintz15
@clintz15 (974)
• India
5 Oct 06
you should think about all the possible problems before getting married ........
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
6 Oct 06
Buddy when it comes to practical it's totally different... we can plan up lot of things ... but real life is different..
zyfro2k6
@zyfro2k6 (391)
• India
5 Oct 06
no i ever do that for my life..
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
5 Oct 06
why so... if you fall in luv with different community then???? Or may be you will luk first her/his culture or religion then luv...
stevej90
@stevej90 (134)
•
5 Oct 06
Yes I would, there could be problems but as they say Love conquers all.
pormadi
@pormadi (1300)
• Indonesia
6 Oct 06
I agree with both of you. Love will take away the difficulties.
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
5 Oct 06
Yeahhhh... If the love is strong enough equally, the problems would work themselves out.
rakleen
@rakleen (565)
• India
5 Oct 06
i would have married a girl from a different culture.
kunalgaurr
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
5 Oct 06
What if problem persists after marriage..
sherinek
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
17 Oct 06
I dont think there will be a problem if the couple is understanding towards each others needs.
WolfGanG
@WolfGanG (15)
• Afghanistan
6 Oct 06
yeah i would love to marry in a different culture and religion.
Lackingstyle
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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15 Oct 06
Providing he has respect for me and believies then yes, there would be no problem at all. Although there would come problems with children and under which culture they'll be raised and such, abit of give and take though.