Relationship question: any inputs???

LOL... I am a married man and I guess this post is for women to answer but I just couldn't resist myself not to give my in put here. I think I will never ever ask my wife about it as no wife can ever tolerate that her husband goes out with another woman who happen to be close to her husband. Its not that she dosent trust her husband but its the matter of not trusting that other woman and further what wife can miss husband can also give the miss.

i'm jealous and selfish with my man, so no, i won't let him go out with a female friend alone. good thing is, i don't see he'll have that need coz i always make myself available for him, he might even complain of being smothered, lol! we just happen to be each other's best friend :)

I think it's out of your hands.Your husband has made the decision that he wants to spend time with this person and is doing so.You can do nothing really for he will say they are just friends and all discussions will appear to be you acting out of jealousy.I guess all you can hope for is his committment to you and the marriage,for if he will cheat it's his decision and his character that's in question.There's a saying that goes,"when a man and a woman are alone,Satan comes in to be the third party" some thing like that,but you get my drift,right?Be prepared for the worse and hope for the best,but you know what he's doing isn't good.

I think I would first invite her over for supper and get to know her and talk with her about her and your husbands past relationship how she feels about him now make sure she is looking you directly in the eyes when she anwsers if she cant do it than she is most likely not being truthful then later after she has left talk with your husband let him know how you feel and what you expect of him and her if you decide to let him go.

You need to ask yourself one question. Do you trust him? If you do not trust him then you have a reason to be jealous but remember if he hasnt done anything for you to not trust him then he will feel like his love for you is in question. If he really loves you then you have nothing to worry about. Now if there has been a case of infidelity in your relationship in the past and you have not come to terms with it then you will feel jealous but you should talk to him before assuming the worst and let him know how you feel. By talking you can resolve this. Did he have an intimate relationship with her? Cause if so then thats another reason to why you feel like this. just talk to him and be honest. Dont be afraid to express your emotions to him. i used to have that problem and I almost lost my wife because I never expressed my feelings to her. I would bottle it all up in side and that isnt healthy. Communication is the key.

it is ok that just two of them going out to movies as long as they dont did something wrong and your husband is loyal to you.it is natural to be jealous but you must put on your mind that your husband loves you and if your husband cheated on you then you must leave him and move on.i think you must give time for him also so that your husband will not go with his girl friend.i think you must give time on him.

In a relationship we can't predict something. If they are aware of their individual family, then there will not be any matter of worry.

If my man wanted to go out with his friend, I wouldn't have a problem. You have to have trust in a relationship; if you can't trust him to go alone why are you with him?

i ruined the best relatof my biyfriend at the tne relationship i ever had by being jealous, turns out after we split i had no reason to worry as he was in love with me and she was married and they had no intentions of doing anything with her. please do you trust him?? if you don't then your marriage wont last anyway. let him go out with his friend.

I am also the jealous type of person though if i am jealous i only keep quiet. If i where in that situation, i will definitely not allowed my husband to go alone with what he so called girl friend from college. though i trust him but the question will always be can i trust the girl? if she wanted to meet with my husband, i should be with him and if they really insist in going out, why not tag along other company like friends from college. that way, i can calm down and think of my work then. i can always give time to it specially when it is for my husband.

I was about to say. of course it's not okay! Then I read another response which had me thinking. Well.. I have given some thought to it and figured, well if a man is guilty of something, something way more than friendship that they claim, he wouldn't want you to know so he would not ask for your permission anymore and maybe just go ahead and do what he likes. On the other hand, the mere fact that he still asks for your permission somehow means it's something really casual and there's nothing more to it that you don't know.. But then, he can be playing that trick to have you think that way.. o well I guess we'll never know..

I'm the jealous type and i'd say NOT in this lifetime buddy! if you wanna go out to dinner and a movie with a girl YOU TAKE ME! and that's that!