is being a single at 25 a problem????

@ms_fery (251)
Philippines
January 17, 2007 11:03am CST
some of my friends and former collegue are married at after graduating in college and some are in high school, if ever we got the chance to get together they always asked me when i am getting married or who's my boyfriend, when i say i dont have at the moment they say "We dont believe you". whats the matter of being single anyway? Are you a single or not? Are you happY?
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@wynna1 (1291)
20 Jan 07
Well, its your life,do whatever you want to do and dont bother whether they'll believe you or not its there choice. And one more thing, dont rush into things as well just because the pressure is on,nothing wrong being single, i mean its a matter of choice and if you are happy the way you are then nothing to worry about, take your time and enjoy your life, there are lot more important thing to worry about.
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@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
yes ill put that in mind. thank you.
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
17 Jan 07
I am a married woman but I can still try and reply to your discussion here and that is due to I have 2 daughters and so I understand you, there is nothing wrong with being single if you want it this way, but if you wish to have someone in your life then that is up to you not your friends if it was your parents asking you this question then maybe it would be that they are looking for when you would start a family. As long as you are happy that is what counts.
@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
yes, i've already said that to them but they just told me im kidding and need a man in my life.
@baietzika (586)
• Romania
17 Jan 07
don't panic. just go on she will aper when you expect less.
@arlene_27 (231)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
I'm turning 27 in three weeks, and I am still single. My last relationship wasn't so good so I could say that although I'm alone, I'm in a better position now that when I was in a relationship with so many issues and a huge room for discontent. They say we're not supposed to settle just for the sake of doing so. I believe there is wisdom in it.