which one is best love marriage or arranged marriage?

marriage  - love marriage or arranged marriage
@ramkihbk (292)
India
January 18, 2007 12:23am CST
i like arranged love marriage.first i marry a girl after that i love her .when we first love a girl it is not interesting after marriage because they can finished all the good things before marriage
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• Philippines
18 Jan 07
If you ask me i would prefer love mariage because I cant be someone and spend the rest of my life wih him without even loving him...so I must love him. But if you ask which one is best..that would really depend there are also lots of arranged marriage that really worked. But wouldnt it be more happier if you marry someone out of love?
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@ramkihbk (292)
• India
20 Jan 07
thanks for reply
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@choknut (11)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I would prefer love marriage since it was my orientation when I tied knots with my wife.I can never imagine my life if ever my wife wasn't my wife.Long before our engagements, we had given both ourselves time and space to know both of us,together with our talents and virtues and vices.There maybe many indiferences in views and opinions, bottomline is we knew each other comfortably. It would be very hard for someone like me to marry someone you didn't know?Did you?
@ramkihbk (292)
• India
20 Jan 07
thanks for reply
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@aroraasr (428)
• India
18 Jan 07
I personally believe in arranged marriage though nowadays its all your luck be it a love marriage or an arranged marriage. Better go for love arranged marriage.
@ramkihbk (292)
• India
19 Jan 07
hai aroraasr in ur home the tell ok for ur love marriage on that case love arranged marriage is better one for all
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@Tamilan (221)
• India
18 Jan 07
love marriage is best. So only both will understand them very well and live a good life. The problem with love marriage is parents permission, most of the parents will not suggest love marriage because they think tht their child will marry the person who they tell and it is prestige prob in the society for them. My suggestion is Love a girl who is suitable for you and ur family status and marry her with your family permission. It will give all happyness in your life....... Thx
@ramkihbk (292)
• India
20 Jan 07
thanks for reply
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• India
18 Jan 07
But I like a successful marriage either it is love marriage or it is a arranged marriage.
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@hibiki (54)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
more often than not arranged marriage results to failure and separation. its hard to marry someone you never knew atleast a year/s before the wedding..isnt it some relationship still fails though theyve been together for a very long time? so i believe it is much better and wiser to know more about your partner before marriage.