Is it right for parents to expect from the child's earning?

@berry9 (590)
India
January 18, 2007 1:14am CST
It has been ages that we have been coming across some people who think selfishly sometimes.Some parents bring up their children,really care,look after them and all.But it all turns the other way when the child starts earning.They start expecting they child to contribute.They do not think if the child is able to meet his own needs outside where he works and if he tries to explain,they hardly wish to even listen.Then misunderstanding happens.In some cases worser things happen as if the child is a guy and he falls in love after he starts earning,some parents try much even to break his relationship.The only thing that goes on the parent's mind will be to take his money.they think if he gets married,they cannot anymore take the money from the son for their need.Isnt love what comes from parents true.Was it always with expectations?love is true only when it doesnt expect to get something in return.
3 responses
@whozefa (448)
• India
18 Jan 07
if its not correct then y should u take them for education and bought up expenses
@berry9 (590)
• India
25 Jan 07
it is their duty because they gave birth.unless they cant bring up,it is not fair to give birth just like animal does and leave themcertainly you have to help your parents but they should not expect when you are not in a position to make enough for your own living isnt it my buddy.
@mcarps79 (1262)
• Uganda
18 Jan 07
You are right I agree with you as same has been done with me ...my father has marry me forcefully when i was in class 12th means of 17 age about and after all they havn't make any support to live with my wife seperately. Now I am earning and living my wife and kids happily ...since I hvn't extra enough money to give him up he is always angry with me and when my son got admitted in hospital they hvn't come see him too...I think a grand father can not such crual for his grand son.... so i m in favoure with you ..coz same ahppened with me...now i hv decided to not go to my father for atleast 5 years...
@berry9 (590)
• India
25 Jan 07
that was so mean. how can anybody be this rock hearted. even if he is your farther you cannot forgive thing he has done to you really.
• Canada
18 Jan 07
I ended up moving out because the $700 I got for disability was cut to $400 because of the child support and I had to give $200 of that to my mother. I thought that was unfair. When I moved out on my own I had to pay rent, but atleast I didn't have to pay my MOTHER.
@anuhya (58)
• India
18 Jan 07
So are u feeling it a big burden to pay ur mother every month, had she thought similarly in your childhood, u would have landed certainly not in abig position.. remember never think a burden to pay ur parents...