y are fathers so hard?

because a father knew what his child can do with his friends because he also attaint that aged same situations while his mother hadnt passes through these stages

Sorry dear i dont agree to you. Its not like that. All fathers are not strict. I can give you mine example. My faqther is just like a very good friend of mine. And i love him very much.

Fathers try to teach their sons to be MEN. It is very necessary

ya friend you are true fathers are hard on the sons. but they are soft on daughters.

It depends on who is raising those boys. For example, if a mother is taking care of them at home from birth, she might be teaching them discipline by saying: "Don't do this". "Don't put your hand in the mouth after you touch that". When daddy comes home, it's mostly time to play! I think every case is individual. Maybe the father had a hard life. My oldest son is crazy about his dad (loves him so much).