What is ur biggest/greatest fear? / myLot

Canada

January 18, 2007 8:36am CST

For me, im always afraid of losing the people i love. Im afraid that i might lose my family, my parents. I know that nothing in this world is permanent and no one can live forever either. But i cant make myself think if that day comes. We were always taught not to fear death or anything because to some it doesnt really end there. Still, that doesnt change how painful it is to lose anyone u love.

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Brian

@wolfie34 (26770)

• United Kingdom

6 Feb 07

My greatest fear is more or less what others have said, that it would be losing my mum, I know it sounds stupid and unrealistic but part of me would rather die first before my mum, because I know the unbelievable amount of pain, suffering and grief it would cause me to lose the most precious thing in my life. But saying that it would be selfish because it would also destroy my mum if I went first.

sechsey

@sechsey (1831)

• Canada

6 Feb 07

I have thought of that as well. And it is a selfish thought. To rid ourselves of the pain of our loved ones dying. It's just that it'l be definitely difficult. And the thought is scary enough for all of us it seems.

shobasvk

@shobasvk (787)

• Malaysia

4 Feb 07

Yes,you know what,that would be my greatest fear too.I afraid i would lose my mother and my loved one and left me alone here in this world.I know this is a fact that everyone have to face it one day.But im not prepared for that incident to be happend in my life.Most night when i sleep alone,i always thinking about this matter and i pray to god,that let it be im the first gone forever than im nlosing my love ne.It would be much more better. But no one can decide fate rite?

sechsey

@sechsey (1831)

• Canada

5 Feb 07

No one can decide fate indeed. And ur right, no matter how ineveitable it is to come, i cant still face the fact that one day itl happen.

coolcat123

@coolcat123 (4387)

• India

18 Jan 07

for me too its height and i dont know how to face it and remove the fear of it.can anyone here have a solution for this.

sechsey

@sechsey (1831)

• Canada

18 Jan 07

Ive heard from people that facing ur fears actually works. I mean when u dont try to escape and find out that u can actually be brave , they say it works. There was this show on tv i watched before, he was afraid of almost anything including heights but due to certain circumstaces on the game he was on, he was forced to go down 11 floors in a building on a rope. He was so scared.But at the end, he was relieved but he was actually surprised that it wasnt as bad as it seems. But after that, he still said he wont do it again. (",)

one5415

@one5415 (380)

• Canada

18 Jan 07

I am afraid of cockroach and take airplane. I don`t like cockroach, and I think that most of people don`t like either.

sechsey

@sechsey (1831)

• Canada

18 Jan 07

hehe i have a friend who is afraid of cockroaches. My god. all of her 3 other sisters will start screaming and jumping over beds or sofas when there's a cockroach. Im not kidding!

kingcheeko

@kingcheeko (339)

• Bermuda

6 Feb 07

Being alone! and bein alone!...and...ummm....bein alone!...lol