What you will do?

@bogdanel (1208)
Romania
January 18, 2007 12:37pm CST
If your best friends ask for financial help.. and you have some money to help him and you don't have any guarantee you will get them back.. you wil help him?
7 responses
@utanyto (413)
• Romania
19 Jan 07
I will help him, but i`ll give him not too much.It depends how many he needs. I can`t trust anybody.But if i know him from 4-5 years, i`ll give him all that he needs!
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@bogdanel (1208)
• Romania
19 Jan 07
Thanks for response! :)
• Ireland
18 Jan 07
It would depend on the reason for needing the money. If they genuinely need the money and there was no other resources available then I would give the money. If it was just a small amount, I would give it and not expect it back, but if it was a large amount, I would trust my best friend to pay it back at the first available opportunity. There is a saying that goes 'If you want to keep a friend, don't borrow and don't lend'.
• Portugal
18 Jan 07
That depends on the reason that he would ask me for money,but if i had some money and i could help a friend for a good reason i will have no problem to borrow him he money.
• India
18 Jan 07
i'll help him because we don't know the future whether he is goin' to pay my money back or not. if i help someone, maybe he will help me one day when i need others help.
• Romania
19 Jan 07
of course. i will help. that's why friends are there for..., no? if i have the possibility, i will help. if not, sorry.
@abhiquest (579)
• India
19 Jan 07
I think the best help you can provide to this friend is to show sympathy and suggest a solution out of the problem. Surely you can guide him to someone who could help him. You can guide him to some financial institution bank, or a job from where he can get financial help. But if you call him a friend, there is no way by which you can dump him at that point of time, just because of his financial needs. These would be the testing times for friendship and you should come out of it together with flying colours!!
• India
18 Jan 07
it depends on you how do you handle it if the person is very close to you and you cant ask him to pay back the money you better forget the money. or else to can take something from him in turn of the money.