How do I get strangers to stop touching my belly?!!

United States
January 18, 2007 1:06pm CST
Im pregnant and sometimes people think it's ok to touch my stomach or try and rub it... aaagggg! This is sooo annoying! Hello- can I rub your back?!!
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• United States
18 Jan 07
HaHa! I have that same problem. Random people will come up to me and touch my stomach. I was grocery shopping a couple weeks ago and this older lady came up and put her hands on my belly and started blessing my baby. I mean it was nice of her and all but shouldnt you of asked first? lol. People just need to think about things first I think.
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• United States
18 Jan 07
I totally agree, Im not one to be rude and call them on it either, so I never know what to do. It weirds me out!!
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I haven't been pregnant but my sister was and this was her pet peeve. She hated how people would do that to her. She'd go out to bingo and people who won would come over and rub her belly with the money for luck. She'd get so irritated by that. She always wanted to know there the unwritten law was that stated when a woman became pregnant her stomach became public property. I could never do that to someone myself but I guess some people don't think. Personally I think I'd get a shirt that says "You touch you are drawing back a bloody stump." Maybe that would send the message.
• United States
24 Jan 07
LOL, thats rude!! Your right- people dont think!!
• United States
19 Jan 07
lol lol!! aww i remember that like it was yesterday...when i was pregnant i never wanted to be touched..i just felt like smacking there heads in..lol..but one day i just snapped a bit//and when a lady came up and said awwwww..and rubbed me..and said how long? I snapped out and said..do you always go around touching other women with out consent?? that was rude..and get away from me..!!!ok yes I was a bitc wicthy that day..but i was soo sick of everyone touching me!!!!so i agree witht her shirt deal..get one that says DONT TOUCH ME..
• United States
19 Jan 07
I need one of those shirts!!! Im just waiting for the day that I snap!
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
18 Jan 07
Pregnant belly - A pregnant woman with painted belly
What about painting your belly with a dont touch sign? I agree with you that it's really annoying to receive such comments from strangers. Maybe they want to be nice but instead it has the reverse effect on you. Wish you luck for a safe delivery.
• United States
18 Jan 07
thanks!
• United States
19 Jan 07
All you have to do is rub there stomach right back and see how they like it... :) That has been the one that has worked for me. People get embarassed and leave you the hell alone!! Good luck.
• United States
19 Jan 07
Ive thought about this too, I just dont like touching other people is my only problem- lol
@mom2boys (334)
• United States
18 Jan 07
this happened to me once, it is so weird i mean its ok for friends/family but strangers...that is so weird, i mean really who does that! ugh!!!! I just had to start saying DO NOT TOUCH ME! I dont know you thats just rude!
• United States
19 Jan 07
no kidding, a lot of times I want to scream that!!
@leedug (920)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I had the same problem, and ugh, I guess people are always just amazed when a new baby is coming. Buy a few (or more!) maternity shirts that say " DONT TOUCH" on the front :-). Maybe that will give them the hint.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
haha i have never heard like this before, a stranger touching someone's belly. hehe
@justreal (2364)
• Canada
21 Jan 07
If you have a nice sexy belly, you have to cover it most of the time, especially if you have a nice cute belly ring.
@asazam (159)
• Netherlands
19 Jan 07
well, i can imagine that this can b really awkward. one should not touch a pregnant lady's stomach without askin even if u ask, only a doctor should be allowed to do so
@sproutz (260)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
Smack them!! than or rub their forhead. I have no idea the good it will do but it will probibalyu make them feel the same fustration you feel. LOL
• United States
18 Jan 07
You know when I was showing with my daughter everyone wanted to see my belly or touch and I just felt so weird. I wanted to smack people. I would just say please don't touch my belly because its making me uncomfortable.