Why do women have to shave their legs and armpits and men don't?

@Sunset50 (1397)
United States
October 5, 2006 4:40pm CST
Double standards?
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13 responses
• United States
16 Oct 06
Who said they had to? Some shave; some don't.
@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
26 Oct 06
That's true, here where I am, if a woman doesn't she is made fun of.
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
26 Oct 06
You don't HAVE to do anything. However, in the American culture most women want to have nice looking legs and pits so they can wear shorts and sleeveless tops and look dainty and clean. Most men don't care if they look scroungy.
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@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Good pointsbeauty. So is this a cultural thing or is it global?
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
26 Oct 06
No, every culture in the world doesn't have our same standards. It's been a few years back, but when I was leaving work for maternity leave, my boss hired a little temp who had recently married an American and come here from Italy. She was a little cutie. After I returned from leave the men told me that she was cute, but they couldn't stand either her hairy armpits or the fact that she didn't use deoderant. Those were both real turnoffs to them.
• Canada
26 Feb 07
Well I should HOPE they were turned off! LOL I'm not talking about her pits, legs, etc. I'm talking about the fact that they should not have been turned on by a married lady!
@scooter1024 (1243)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I wouldnt say women have to but it looks better. I guess I have never thought of it like that. Yes it is double standards, but isnt most things when it comes to men? lol
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@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Very true haha.
@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
26 Oct 06
I was going to say the same as xbrendax. That is probably a good reason why, though I don't really like hairy armpits (ugh!!)
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@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
26 Oct 06
One reason for the armpits is because it helps with the odor thing. It's easier to stay fresh when shaved. Which brings us back to why don't men shave their underarms, they get sweaty and smelly too. Right?
@xbrendax (2662)
• United States
20 Oct 06
It might be because a man is suppose to be hairy, macho, and (manly), where as a woman is suppose to be smooth, clean shaven and feminine!
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@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Good point, someone set a standard and people have to fit in. I think some men shave their bodies too, but I doubt if there are very many.
• United States
26 Oct 06
Who said? What do you mean "suppose to"?
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@xbrendax (2662)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Well, that's just the way society is, but of course a person can be and look any way they want, there are no laws on that! Also I guess it's a way of fitting IN, as they say, do as everybody else does! I never did! I was never one of the crowd!
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@Jellen (1852)
• United States
26 Oct 06
It's not a have to, it's a get to. Who wants that itchy hair anyway? Poor guys, it they were to shave it off, they'd be the laughing stock!
• United States
27 Oct 06
Many guys shave, especially athletes and some gay men.
@Jellen (1852)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Armpits and legs?
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Well we don't exactly have to if we don't want to but we choose to do it instead of being alone living with a bunch of hairy cats. I think men find a shaved woman very sexy so we do it to be wanted and feel sexy. My sister-in-law has tried something called Veet and she says it is good and keeps the hairs off longer then shaving and the hair removal product Nair. I use wax strips and ocasionally shave. But they are lotions out there that slow down the growth of hair with regular use this works also because I use a lotion by Jergens called naturally smooth. Well to each there own.
• Canada
26 Feb 07
I definitely think it's a double standard. One day my FATHER asked me why I didn't shave my legs. I asked him why he didn't shave his, then I yelled at him for even LOOKING at my legs, and told him fathers should not look closely enough at their daughters legs to notice!! THAT shut him up pretty quickly.
• India
27 Nov 06
coz men like it that way!!and women to please their men shave it.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
27 Nov 06
Women don't have to. They choose to. I chose not to shave my armpits for many years. Now I shave them because my girlfriend likes it. And when she likes it, it means good things for me. ;) I don't shave my legs because leg hair really doesn't bother me.
• United States
28 Nov 06
Yeah no...woman's hair grows long and beautifully from the head...and thats it. Anything else is shaved...it's simply considered good hygeine for women these days, and socially unacceptable for a woman to walk around with furry legs. It's simply a common understanding
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 07
i don't have hair in my leg so i don't have to shave it. i believe if we shave hair, hair grow much thicker than usually .yug
• Saudi Arabia
26 Feb 07
well i like women with stubble or hair in their armpits so i dont have the double stardard thing in this issue :D