does life change after marriage

United States
January 18, 2007 5:55pm CST
Life does change for a girl after marriage.my story for example before marriage i was this brat.never cooked.the best i could make was coffee.never cleaned the room forget the house.could never stay at home. But now i am married ,i get up at 6 to cook breakfast.i do laundry,vaccum.never thought life will take a 360 degree turn.now i am at home most of the time.sudden whole lot of responsibility. does this happen to everyone
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@drashima (224)
• United States
19 Jan 07
it happens to everyone, i was a brat spoilt to the core. i would never even get up to get a glass of water,my mom waited on me hand and foot. now even i cook, vaccuum and do a whole lot of other things.on top of that,i have to study too. its life and we have to accept it.
• United States
19 Jan 07
i knw thts how life changes and i seem to be liking this change.its gives total new feeling about myself as person and as a wife.
@tams85 (30)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
After marriage, every decision involves both people, and most people aren't used to that, which I think is the reason for most of the immediate post marital arguements. I'm getting married in a couple of months, and since both my fiance and I are catholic, we have to take a marriage preparation course before we are allowed to get married in the church. Although I'm not really that religous, the course was actually really helpful.. it hardly talked about religion at all, but focused on the common problems that newly weds have. Women now are all about equality, and this causes issues with housework, cooking, cleaning, etc, after getting married. My fiance and I have hopefully settled on a system that will keep us both happy. For instance, he loves ironing clothes, but hates folding them... he loves cooking, but hates doing the dishes. I believe that with some compromise on both sides, life doesn't have to change all that much!
• United States
19 Jan 07
defenately marriage is like a package ..compromise comes with it..its a very imp part of marriage. but now a days that compromise and understanding is kind of going away and hence divorces are taking its place.. The sacred institution called marriage has been taken for granted.
@steerforth (1797)
• Italy
18 Jan 07
I think it's normal after the marriage, the people must work for the house and for take home the money.
• United States
18 Jan 07
Of course this does happen to everyone. It's differant but I think you'll get used to it. Good luck with your marriage!
• United States
19 Jan 07
what i meant was life changes only for a girl..or does it change for both..my hubby is the same..life seem to have changed at all for him. i am happy with the changes..life looks so different after marriage.its such a new feeling