giving part of urself

isnt it when you love someone you're risking everything for that person...when you love someone you dont have to expect that s/he will be reciprocating it in the exact way that you want it to happen...in every relationship there's a give and take, understanding, and patience...in each of us we have differences, each of us has different way of showing love and affection, but dont you think that its best for you to let them feel that you have love them in the best way you can, than to have a regret in the end that you dont give your all?

I can understand what u feel, but we shud push ourself harder and harder to make ourself stronger, if we dont expect anything in return, or any kind of affection or care ,thne nothing can make us sad, any this behavoiur (true ,infinite selfless love) will definitely move the person u love, it may take time , but it will happen for sure, then u can be sure his/her love for u will equal to how much u love her/him. Again this puts an expectation for the love to return, no need if someone comes back, good for him/her n for u, even if not ,then be glad coz good loves you, as u love all other as he has asked us to.

well, may be that's what it is called unconditional love... you do something to others and you don't expect anything in return... hope that only God can repay your kindness...

it always happens to us women. we always love whole-heartedly, giving our 100% and most of the time taken for granted. maybe we should sometime think of ourselves.To leave some part of us to ourselves. Giving 100% percent love doesn't mean we'll be loved, too. But if you really love someone that you would risk that 100%, then go, because you can never tell , that with the help of prayers, you'd find one day that he love you more than how much you love him.

well it is sad sometimes that we give all we can to this other person and we find our love unreciprocated and all our efforts shrugged off. it is really painful to continue loveng a person you know doesnt love you back. i am actually in the same position as you are way back. but then again i never asked the guy. maybe you never asked the guy?. or did you just assume that he didnt like you?. are you in a relationship and feel unloved and uncared for and neglected?. sometimes men have a hard time showing what they really feel because unlike women they do not show their emotions that often. so mayve you should ask him..

ya.... It's true... It's a kind of denotion to ur loved ones......!!!

Expecting is what makes you fall. If you love someone unconditionally you won't fall very hard because you be expecting. You will accept the fall when it comes. It is not your giving your all that makes you hurt but your expectation.

you also thing in the opposite direction . if u do some job and totally devote your entire life time for that that means you are sacrifycing your own interest and taking pain of the others and telling others that u are enjoying love. how is this possible to act at different side in one time . either u r fooling the other or you are fooling your self. love is a required one and without that any thing is not possible in life it is also agreed but it does not mean that u should sacrifice all for love. then this will become one sided love is it not . how ever , glad that u r thinking in this line . all the best

Giving of yourself and loving someone does not mean it will be returned. All those songs and poems about unrequited love wouldn't exist if it were. Love also exists in caring for others, especially those who cannot take care of themselves, in these cases a return of love may be ther at times, but again may fade as the other becomes less aware of surroundings in the case of those with a mentally diminishing process. Volunteers, helath care professionals and others give of themselves daily expecting no love in return but freely giving love nevertheless. I don't think in any cse that fair or unfair enters into the process, it simply is.

Sometimes we love someone and they do not feel the same way. Thsi is sad for us, but you cannot have a relationship with someone who does not feel the same way. The best thing to do is move forward and look for a new love.

It sometimes sad that your partner who would share with you day and nights after sometime even doesnot get time to talk to you.. One always feels lonely and depressed when such situations come.. I feel you should always sought out the problem with your partner and let him / her know about your feelings and even you can know what he thinks about you.. !

this is such a wonderful post.and this is actually true to a very gr8 extent tht howevr we love someone to the maximum extent psbl but smwhr we donot get the equal return. we try to overlook the other person's mistake and cntinue to love him fully but i guess thy donot understand it and is the most hurting thing just hurts it to the bottom f our heart. i just leave it and try forgetting things by just saying tht" we r 2 diff individuals" and mite be tht time wud heal our differnces!!

donot start loving a person till you know he is trust worthy of your love... the life with the people who loves us will be better than the life with the people who we loved... so choose your love befor loving... have a good day...

Go Jenny Go!

I have been there and done that so many times but what I have learned is that before you can love another you must be able to love yourself. If I give you love an you dont return it then in a sense I am ok with that because no one can love me more then I love me.

Spare some love to yourself don't give it your all so that you won't get hurt in the end. Guys love it when a girl is strong willed and doesn't fall easily try to be a hard to get kinda girl even if you are in a relationship already. Love is like a hard earned money you don't save it if its easy to gain.

there is no assurrity that your love will be returned...hell no...but sometimes you are so deep in love that you cannot help it knowing that your love is not being returned but you still keep on giving love...i have not watched the movie...

YEH!!! i agree with you .

you are right to a degree.If you love someone and you treat them as you love them then giving your love feels good to you no matter.If you are giving your love expecting someone to love you in return then you are bound for disappointment.There really is no pleasing man and the more you try the harder the outcome seems to be.When you give to others the feeling of giving has to be your reward for others usually don't appreciate what you do all the time.If you are loving a person who isn't loving you back then your love should diminish, for love has to be cared for like a garden and without careful tending the love will wither.If you are loving someone who isn't loving you back and you stay in the situation,then that's your choice and the feelings that come about are what you want to feel.Life is not a movie and you have realities that you must deal with and that reality is what it is.

If you don't give things your all it seems like your failing. Giving it your all it makes you feel like you don't have to look back and and say what if.