If your partner lied for so many things what would you do?

Philippines
January 18, 2007 11:28pm CST
First of all, I want to thank everyone who responded on my previous discussion regarding if you caught your partner flirting. I do appreciate it so much. This is a new issue. (some may say im so martyr about my situation) but with your advises it helps me grow. Heres what i found out(latest). My husband is on his Rest Day and im at work that time. He said that he will be going to a nearby mall to buy some things for my kid. It was late at night so i assume that the mall is already close by that time. I sent out a txt message asking him where he is? but before i got a reply from him. I tried tracking him using my phone. (phone tracker - It is a software where you can track what is the location of the owner thru mobile phone real time) My husband has no idea about this technology i installed on his phone. The tracker told me that he went to the farthest mall. it would take him around 30 mins to be there. ANd i know he hates travelling. However, my husband replied to me that he is in the office. To my shock that there is a discrepancies on his reply. I asked him what he is doing in the office sice it was his Rest Day. Got no response. I feel so bad about it. I dont know what to do. SInce he doesnt have any idea about the tracker and i cant just confront him about this. Please help me. Thanks.
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• India
19 Jan 07
most important in an relationship is trust.. and clearly u dont trust ur husband..he may have just gone to meet his friend who is a girl.. and in similar situation before u must have asked him a lot of questions and made him feel u r not happy he meeting his friend.. or may have made him feel guilty .. so he is not telling u where he is going.. and lieing..so please also make an effort to understand ur husband.. my husband also goes ou to meet his friends both girls and boys.. and he tells me
@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
Well,it sounds like the two of you have some trust and communication skills to work on. Communication is probably the most important thing in a relationship.Without it,you can have no trust or growth. I hope the two of you can discuss and solve your problems before things spin out of control.