How can you said goodbye to the person that he/she will not feel hurt?

@aslygirl (531)
Philippines
January 18, 2007 11:31pm CST
Saying good bye is hard to say to someone, isnt it?
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11 responses
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
Thats the hardiest part of any relationship.When you say game over!Even you say it to the person in nice way, still he will feel the pain.But the important is explain to him/her and tell your sides.
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@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Yes theirs nothing wrong when you talk and explain it.maybe somehow he/she will understand.Thanks for the response.
@cheko252 (73)
• United States
19 Jan 07
It is, in any situation. But sometimes saying goodbye makes you know that that person is off to start something new, something fresh, a new start with life. But on the other hand, saying goodbye can be a good thing. For example, paying off your mortgage, saying goodbye to debt, even saying goodbye to your kids when they finally get married and you get the house to yourself. It works both ways in situations.
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@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
But how can you say goodbye to someone if in yourself you scared to let him go. But you need to have seperate lives to grow.
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@jompach (97)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
i have gone through this kind of situation and i have thought about it a million times lol. if your going to say goodbye to someone you must say it directly but say it like a joke or a tease cause if your going to say end part by part the one your be leaving he/she will get confused. so say it directly to him/her.
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@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
Thanks for your reply.
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@jinuxnet (675)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
I think for me it depends. maybe she or he is numb
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@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
Well maybe maybe not!but anyway Thank you for your response!
@shiela15 (286)
• Australia
22 Mar 07
Blue sings "sorry seems to be the hardest word"! Saying goodbye on the other hand depends on the situation. If you really mean to say so without thinking what could be the feeling whom you about to tell, it isn't that difficult. Goodbye is a deceiving word. We usually say it when we are about to depart of ways/direction but the fact we knew that tomorrow or any hour by now, you know you are about to meet again. Goodbye is just painful when you know there's something wrong in between and you think you can't handle it and then you just decide to leave. Naturally, the person will feel bad and bitter. It's natural and there's no way to control one's feelings.
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• Philippines
27 Feb 07
Its not easy to say goodbye, and its not easy to feel that you wont hurt if someone tell you its quit.But the good thing of it is you become stronger.Theres no easy way to tell to person that your relationship is over.Its hard at first but later you will realize that maybe its the best way to each other. Start to talk and explain. maybe that was the best way so that he/she will not hurt.
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@maumbi (2570)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 07
yup its very hard to say just like word: "i love u MOM/DAD";) but for me its simple just said, its good for she/he feeling.
@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
Saying I love you to others is not hard to say but anyway thanks for the response.
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
It maybe hard, and it may hurt but, it has to be said. So, go ahead and say it. Cry if you must. It is only natural and there is nothing to fear at all doing what is natural to us, men of this world.
• Philippines
30 May 07
In all aspects of saying goodbye, it hurts. You will cry and feel sad because you know that you have hurt someone. It is better to tell the truth why you want to say goodbye. Truth can hurt both of you but it will set you free. Just choose the right thing to say and the right word to use.
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
i will begin with a kiss and explanation... slowly and slowly, i will also tell to that person the reason a valid reason for leaving,,, and tell him goodbye, and end with i kiss.
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
well if that person is really close to you, saying goodbye is the hardest thing ti do and say, but if the person is not that close to you, saying goodbye is natural.... thanks