This is not a Lie!!!

@ronita34 (3923)
Canada
January 19, 2007 1:57am CST
My best friend in th eworld just called me like 40 minutes ago now. She was crying and as soon as she said Ronnie i knew that soemthing was immediately wrong. I asked her what happened and she said that her boyfriend pushed her down so hard that her back even hurts along with smacking her head into the floor. She is an hour and a halfs drive away from me and i can not go and get her until tomorrow morning. I told her to go and stay at another friend our ours place until i get there. My poor girl i feel bad for her and she has only been with the guy for 3 months. I told her from the start that he gave me a bad vibe. My main concern now is that she hasn't gotten to our other friends place yet and she should have been there more than 20 minutes ago. What should i do??? Should i wait for her call or just think that she got there safe??? I am so worried.
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@Jwalant (150)
• India
20 Jan 07
U should help her. Ask her to leave him & start a new life.
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@keverw (96)
• United States
20 Jan 07
ya good idea i wood do that if it was a girl i was dateing so ya Ask her to leave him & start a new life
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
20 Jan 07
I have done just this actually. I went and picked her up yesturday and she is now at home. I can tell that she is very heart broken and upset but i told her that this is no life for her. She is such a happy , outgoing person and i would hate to see him take away her spirit like this!
@habichuelo (3101)
• United States
20 Jan 07
i hope the stupid dumb get arrested for that,,,i dont get it,,even if a woman cheat on me i would just tell her strongly i dont wanna know from you again and just abandone her,,,but how in the world some idiots hurt womans for any reason,,those macho man ignorants and #$@!$#&$%* dont know how to taste enjoy appreciate and love a sweet woman,,,,some like me would love to have a girlfriend to satisfy her in ALL the sense of the word. And im supen tired of hearing about this kind of situations! I wish her all the best and try to convince her to report the beast to the police SOON!!!!!
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
20 Jan 07
I know it is wrong for a man to ever touch a woman in a harmful way and i wish it didn't have to happen to her. She is 5 years younger than me and has no children. I have been telling her that she would only get gruef fro him. i am also a firm believer in letting people live and learn. I am glad that this happened because she is now home and out of the situation thank god!
• India
19 Jan 07
I think, you should rush immediately to your girl friend's house. Anything may happen with her. OR if you have another friend nearby place, please ask him/her to see your girl friend. one and half hour journey is not much distance. Please try to visit and slove the problem with both of them.
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@leleng (246)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I think you should go to your friend's house. Make sure that she's ok. Or call her, don't wait for her call. Pray for her safety.
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• India
20 Jan 07
you should not wait for her call, you should call her ..and its nothing to worry coz sometimes in relation ,dispute happens it doesnt means that a person who comitted affense is not good ..you may hv sometimes made mistake too, may be not hurt someone physically ,may be by words ..
@Willowlady (10665)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Do you have any large size guy friends that could escort you over there? Do you have any friends on the police force. Perhaps they could make a courtesy call on your friend. They did for my parents when I had turned my ringer off and they could not call me. They live 2 hours away. She could be unconsious due to the head hit. I am hoping that it works out for the best! Let us know!!
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
20 Jan 07
Actually before i went to bed i called and she made it there. I picked her up at 10 yesturday morning. She was feeling sad, lonely and even stupid. She was going to try to stay and told her no way. I told her that she needs time away from him to get her head clear again and that she didn't need this and it would only get worse. I also told her that only time will heal all wounds and only time. She already felt better last night i could see my old best friend coming back to me and i thank god for keeping her safe. Also for all of your support and care!
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@Willowlady (10665)
• United States
20 Jan 07
So glad it worked out and am relieved. Things could have and still could go wrong. Keep with her and will also keep you two in my mind. You are welcome for the caring, I am fond of you and hope all the best!!!
@getnbuy (1314)
• United States
21 Jan 07
thanks goodness she is ok! please don't let her go back to him-ever! Try to convince her that men who batter women don't stop. Maybe she should see a counselor .
• United States
20 Jan 07
you should go there immediately. imagine if it was you, i'd be running. Some guys can be so manipulative. i'd be anywhere else except where he is.
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
20 Jan 07
I would of if i could of you see i do not have my own vehicle. I borrow my mothers car and she needed to get to work and that is the earliest that i could get there. She was at our other friends and other than being heart broken she is ok. Thank God for that!!
• Romania
19 Jan 07
I think you should call for her, to be certain that it's allright.Tell us what has been happenned.
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
I have tried and yet to find out where she is but i have to get to sleep now in order to be able to go get her in the morning. When i get home i will come on to let you all know and i thank you for your sympathy!
@budsr03 (2351)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
Maybe call the hospitals in your area. her head injury could be serious. Let us Know More please I want this to turn out ok.
@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
I think that i will do just that and i will definatley keep you filled in. I will be back on here tomorrow afternoon sometime and will let you know. thank you for your concern and i have her in my prayers. Lord keep her safe.
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
Go to her, get there immediately i will not fall into sleep if i were you in the firts place, your just near her place 1 and 1/2 is not that far. Be cautious though better bring a another friend or a police, just in case. Be there before it's too late.
• India
20 Jan 07
Hi there. I'll tell you what you should do. Try to rush there at once. Get your lazy a** there at once. Or atleast call her every once in a while, to know if she's doing well . Tell her to go to a hospital at once. And if you want, you can call the police in that place and ask them to help immediately, because the guy can and may cause further trouble and assuault . Bye ...
• India
20 Jan 07
i believe u should be there instead of posting this discussion, when someone this kind of thing nothing is personal about it, better u help out ur friend to be out of there and if necessary ,call the cops ,nobody has got rights to beat anyone.
@muse02 (213)
• United States
20 Jan 07
I would have your friend go to the place that the other girl lives and see if she is there. If not then call around to the hospitals and see if she has showed up.
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
20 Jan 07
I would have called the police in her area. They could have gone to the house and said a neighbor called in a disturbance at their home. Hope everything turns out okay.
@kawillow74 (1417)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Oh wow I hope she is ok I would have the friend that is close drive buy see if her car is still there if it is call the cops to come you never know what he might do to you. I hope after she get out she don't go back. Kepp us updated.
• Nicaragua
20 Jan 07
well, i recommend you to call her lately, just for that she know that you are worry on her and doesn't feels alone. Talk with her from other things if you can and tell her that everything will be right and that you will go tomorrow. Tell her too about that man. That he shouldn't do it and he doesn't deserves her. Give her support
@aprilten (1966)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I just read this discussion so I guess it's too late to give any advice. And by this time I'm sure you've had a lot already. I pray that your friend is okay.
@getnbuy (1314)
• United States
20 Jan 07
this is a very scary situation! I think you should call the police and have them go to her place and see if she is alright. If she is not there, then they need to find her! Please report back tomorrow.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
20 Jan 07
What are you waiting for? If she is your best friend in the world you should not be bothered about a little distance. Just go to her house right now and make sure she is alright and get her back to your place. Also keep trying to call. If her bf creates trouble tell him you'll call the cops.
@pusiket (1757)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
Oh gosh, I pitty your friend. I am with you in wishing that she'll be fine soon. And right now she is safe in your other friend's house. Is there any way for you to check if she gotten there already?
@munjal (40)
• India
20 Jan 07
u shud immediatel go to her