What if your girlfriend pregnant?

Indonesia
January 19, 2007 3:53am CST
What if your girlfriend pregnant. Do you want to take responsibility for this?
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23 responses
@victorwzj (539)
22 Jan 07
if that happen I will take full responsibility. I always dreamed to be come a father and of cause I will love my girlfriend more too. Abandoning them is not a solution and I do not want other people to raise my kid. The worst thing a parent can do to a child is abandoning them. I am not sure why you ask this question ..., what answer you hope to aspect from this discussion ? I am not sure but I know for fact most of the user here will answer that they will take full responsibility and you won't know for sure until this really happen on them. No one is stupid enough to make them look like a person that are not responsible .
• Indonesia
23 Jan 07
I know that they will be answer with the same answer to take the responsibility. I just want to know their comment, why they have to take responsibility and are they really take it if happen to them or not. Not just to answer yes or no. I need an opinion, thats why we are here in the discussion, to share opinion not just answer a question.
@ichampin (593)
• India
20 Jan 07
I would take the responsibility for it, if I am responsible for it. If I had shared my love and space with her, I'll also share this thing with her also, First of all i won't let her pregnant and if she is pregnant than I'll be there for here and try to reslove the problem and face it together with her, why should she alone suffers for it. If I am responsible I will take responsibility for it.
@nanands (122)
• India
20 Jan 07
Of course... it is not clear to me why this discussion has been started.
• Indonesia
23 Jan 07
Which one is not clear for you? I think the question is clear enough to answer. You just give opinion what will happen if your girlfriend pregnant as you are not married her yet. Why don't give a comment?
@hottie0728 (1732)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Both of them should take responsibility in taking care of the baby. The girl shouldnt do abortion and the guy should not run away from her. The baby is a gift and it is not his/her fault to be brought in the world.
@uath13 (8204)
• United States
22 Jan 07
Want to? If its your kid you "ARE" responsable for it. Grow up!
• India
22 Jan 07
Yes Ofcoz She Is My Girl Freind. I'll Take responsibility. The unborn child & girl freind is mine. i love my girl freind. i cant see she will face any problem. thats my responsibility. i cant leave her. i;ll take care of her.
• India
22 Jan 07
its ur own deed that made her pregnant have to accept it and the baby should come into this world
@leedug (920)
• United States
22 Jan 07
This is actually a really good question. So many guys do NOT take responsibility that it is unbelievable. Some women do not take responsibility as well. Have you ever watched the Maury Povich show where he does the paternity tests? There are women bringing 5 to 6 year old children in there, and the men are still in denial. Even after it is proven to be their child, they are mad and don't want to take care of the kid (of course there are some that really aren't the father). So yes, of course me should take care responsibility if their girlfriend becomes pregnant. I don't see any reason in the world why they should not! It takes two people to create a baby. The girl didn't just get pregnant on her own. If there are doubts that the baby is his, well, that is what paternity tests are for.
@csenguler (243)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Yea i would take the responsibility. But if you dont want to get into that position you better be cautious
• India
20 Jan 07
of course .. yes.. thats the best way to start an uncomplicated long healthy family life !
• Italy
20 Jan 07
surely you have to take the responsibility ! You are not a child anymore and you have to think about the consequences ! Having a baby would be a beautiful gift in my opinion ! Not taking the responsibilities is a crime in my opinion ! The child deserves your love and he doesn't have to be treated like a mistake, like something you don't want and would have avoided !
• Romania
20 Jan 07
HY! my friend here she pregnant....her boyfriend is near her and are talking about keeping the baby or not....
• India
20 Jan 07
i am from india therefor i will respond your question in my own way .first of all one should be attentive in this respect that where and how far he or she going in relationship.physical relation should be made only when the both is commited to each other.ok now i am giving the answer of your question if it were happen to me then i will definatelr marry her because she is in this situation only because of me.
• India
20 Jan 07
Yeah definitely! Being a responsible man anyone would do the same!
@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
if you're the father of the child, it is your responsibility, and if not, if you really love her you will take her no matter what the consiquences, pregnant or not.
• Thailand
20 Jan 07
Of course i would take responsibility. the fact that i got her pregnant indicates that i love her and i will take full responsibility for such actions. Im the kind of person who is very carefully in what i do, i don't usualy do things without thinking the outcome of my actions.
@rsa101 (22974)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
The person in her womb is yours so it is just appropriate that you should take responsibility for it. As others have said in previous thread it is a gift from God you should take it and welcome a new member of the family.
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
boys should take that responsibles.
@072006 (1279)
• India
20 Jan 07
Yehh!! ofcourse one has to atke responsibility...n whts bad in tht??
• Indonesia
20 Jan 07
Well, action comes with responsibility, I guess. Definetely if the girl is pregnant you should jump with joy, take responsibility and say, "At last, my sperm did a good job!" he he he..