Argument create gap between relationship
@santwana_veddika (2018)
India
January 19, 2007 8:04am CST
i have seen that husband and wife discuss something but slowely slowely discussion develop in argument , they started to justify themself , even a they shout each other .
Have u faced this type of problem
have u always try to justify urself
are the argument create a gap between u and ur wife / u and ur parents .
is it right or wrong
5 responses
@sehgalskapil (1332)
• India
20 Jan 07
yes they do create a gap thats why theyy are wrong..i've faced so many times bt cool down quickly for protecting relation..
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
20 Jan 07
good for protecting relation we have avoid the argument .
well thanks for ur reply .
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
19 Jan 07
Hi,No still i didn't get married,but i saw many families fighting like that,starts with slow motion and ends in a state of terrible.I don't like that type.That gap should not be there.
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
19 Jan 07
yes sunny i am too agree with u .
well thanks for ur response .
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
21 Jan 07
Arguments should be based on real facts and it should be to prove one's greatness or bigness or with the motive of winning the argument. Sometimes, the arguments ends on a happynote and that lead to a better understanding. Avoiding arguments on right track is only to walk on some day on a fire covered with ash.
@TheApparition (337)
• India
19 Jan 07
Yes.Such situation are more visible in in relationships.
There are some insights I would like to share wrt this.
During Arguements, usually each one tries to justify their point.Infact arguements persists as along as one is keen in jutifying it ,whether one is right or wrong, or until one comes to know of disparate philosophy each one holds.
However I dont think it leads to gaps if- the arguement is based on incorrect assumption/data AND if the arguers are looking to understand each others points or seeking a new perspective.
In such a situation u still have difference of opinions, but u tend to accept that difference exists and u begin to think over other possibilities also.
In such cases the "gap" is reduced becoz u simply understand the other point of view(whether u accept it or not).
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
19 Jan 07
yes ia am totally agree with u . yes the gap is reduced if we understand the other view .
well thanks for ur response .
@beta_love (451)
• India
22 Jan 07
well arguements create gap in relationship but that does nt mean it can end your relationship since everyone has their own thinking so its not necessary that you and your partner agree to each and every thing
