First Love

Singapore
October 6, 2006 1:25am CST
At what age did you started to date? I was 17 when i had my first bf..
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@Rajeshs (125)
• India
11 Oct 06
i am raj. now i am 22 years old.my first love was in my 1st standard. there was a girl named ponni. she was my friend's sister. but i liked her very much. but it was an one way love. these are very silly things . i know that but i cant forget all them because its my first love.but when i became a enager my first love was with my class mate . she revealed about her fealings to me. i was quite happy to know i have a girl friend. then we talked each other in class, phone etc. but it not secceed. she is of same age . so it broken.she was much pretty . some romance have been taken place ,like kissing etc. but she marriared anoher man. and now she is pregnant. we see each oter while travelling .she was much shy , u used to give her flying kisses , hugs . she likes all but her shyness given me more courage to do that very often.our castes were much different. after three years we knew our relation cannot be proceeded. so we talked about that very seriously. that concluded in the end of our relation.
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• India
30 Oct 06
i'm really sorry. so sad to hear this but dont worry u'll find another love
@mohit2006 (793)
• India
11 Oct 06
i am 18 and i haven't dated till now
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
I'm sure the love of your life will come along and sweep you off your feet very soon! =)
• Singapore
12 Oct 06
Will keep you in prayers! =)
• India
12 Oct 06
i hope so and i pray it should be at the earliest
• United States
11 Oct 06
at the age of 17
• India
11 Oct 06
age 10
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
That is reallly young! You sure it's not just a crush???
• India
11 Oct 06
at age 10??????.......we are not talking about first gold medal in school!!!
• United States
19 Oct 06
I was 10 when I had my first bf. I moved in 6th grade and didn't have a bf for another year, then in 7th grade I dated a boy who later told me he was gay. My next bf didn't come till HS I dated my junior and senior year the same guy until he cheated on me. I met someone in college and got engaged, he went into the military and changed for the worse, we broke it off. About a year later I went into the military and met my now hubby! We have been married for 5 years now and have 2 beautiful children!
• Singapore
20 Oct 06
YOur children are indeed beautiful! =) Thanks for sharing your love journey with us! =)
• United States
20 Oct 06
Thank you and your welcome!
• United States
21 Oct 06
I was 13 and he is now my husband.
@justiman (428)
• United States
22 Oct 06
so did you ever have another bf between then and now? because that is very interesting.
• Singapore
21 Oct 06
oh my! Good for you! =) So how long was your love marathon before you decided to marry him??
• United States
21 Oct 06
about 6 years. Thank you
@RealIolo (1854)
• United States
27 Oct 06
In kindergarden the girls called me the love monster because I would chase them down and kiss them. I was far too interested in girls and what made them different from boys long before the other boys. One girl I was nuts about for several years in grade school was spanked by her father when she showed a little affection toward me. That kind of put that fire out; at least for her. I think during most of my school years most of the girls were afraid of me because I was too serious about the relationship.
• Singapore
28 Oct 06
Awww.. that's so cute.. hee.. thanks for sharing your story! Hope you've out grown the stage of just chasing and kissing girls! ;)
@RealIolo (1854)
• United States
29 Oct 06
Yeah, that doesn't go over well once your age reaches double digits. heh
• India
22 Oct 06
i never had one!
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
23 Oct 06
too bad! How old are you?
@sunrisekn (1466)
• United States
13 Oct 06
My first love happened when I was 16 years old. He was 18 years old and so cute!! My parents forbade it and I was so brokenhearted. We did see each other at school and we snuck to talk to each other on the phone. It lasted until I was 21 and I found out that he cheated on me. However, I wouldn't be the woman that I am if I hadn't had such a lovely first love.
• Singapore
13 Oct 06
Well, if nothing else was worth it, at least he's cute! =P
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I had my first boyfriend at 14 years old. Did not start actually dating until I was 16. I actually am married to the boy who was my boyfriend at 14. We dated almost all throughout highschool and got married when we were 24 years old. Still with him and extremly happy.
@justiman (428)
• United States
22 Oct 06
cool!!!!!!!
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
Wow! I'm happy for you! May you enjoy a very blissful marriage always =)
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
13 Oct 06
I don't remember the exact age, but I was in my early teens. I met my first love at a Christian retreat. I was madly in love with him....and then I moved here to Toronto. He came to visit, and my mother hated him immediately. Anyway..it didn't work out..because I really didn't feel the same. He left and I never saw him again...I felt bad after...because he came all the way from B.C. I still wonder if I should have given it a chance?
• Singapore
13 Oct 06
Well, God would have opened the doors for you if he's really worth it. I'm sure someone else will come sweep you off your feet, or has he come already? =)
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
18 Oct 06
i think i was 17 too when i courted my first girl! LOL it didnt really work out. When i was 20 i was with another gf. one that lasted over 2 years.
• Singapore
19 Oct 06
So what happened to the 2nd gf?? ;)
• India
18 Oct 06
bad luk here for me guys...havnt dated anyone till now...wish me gud luk that i wud have 1 very soon.....thanx
• Singapore
19 Oct 06
Good luck to you! I'm sure the girl of your dreams will come to you very soon =)
@DELICIA (136)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
21 Oct 06
i think i was 16, love at first sight i should call it .last for 4 years then we split , was hard to forget everything , and sometimes now after so long i still miss him, we stiil talk and keep in touch but we are not together anymore
• Singapore
22 Oct 06
I know what you mean.. sometimes it's really difficult.. but time will definitely heal.. give yourself to grieve over the relationship.. and it'll get better! =)
@BVBF25 (753)
• United States
29 Oct 06
I was seventeen. To this day we are still together. We have 4 kids. We'll be married for seven years this comming December.
• Singapore
30 Oct 06
Oh wow! Good for you! Congratulations on your wedding anniversary! =)
@jmafofo (359)
• South Africa
11 Oct 06
I was 21 and the relationship lasted for less than two months
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
I had a relationship that was like that too.. I guess sometimes it just doesn't work out the way we want it to..
• Nigeria
11 Oct 06
You really started dating at the ridgt age i started dating at 15 though my mum was really carefull with whom i went out with
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
Thanks... The relationship was good and it lasted 2 years.. but due to our many differences and views in life, we're no longer together and i have since moved on to dating others.. now i'm praying for a man who will come and sweep me off my feet once again =)
@scooter1024 (1243)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I had my first boyfriend at age 14. I wasnt allowed to go on a real date until I was 16.
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
Wow.. you start really young! =)
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I wasn't allowed to start dating until I was almost 18. My parents were way too over-protective even for back then.
• Singapore
12 Oct 06
That's good though, 18 is a pretty good age to start =)
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I was 15 when I had my first boyfriend....he broke up with me a month later :(
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
I'm sure someone better have come or will come along =)
• United States
11 Oct 06
i dated my best friend when i was 8 yrs old...we were together for 5 yrs...when he had moved away, and i didnt want a long distance relationship.i guess u would say we were more best friends then anything, did stuff that friends did together. but my first serious boyfriend wasnt until i was i think 15 or 16.
• Singapore
12 Oct 06
Yeah, it's nice to have a best friend to do stuff with together.. i used to have a crush on my childhood best friend too.. though we never dated but i really treasured the times that we spend together =)