long term commitment -- what can you say?

Philippines
January 19, 2007 7:12pm CST
Would you believe that "long term commitment will lead you to nothing"? I know several unsuccesful long-term love stories but foe me a relationship always depends on the people who handles it... If you know how to give and take Im pretty sure that everything will be alright.... Just like what i have at current.... going 11 years...
4 responses
wraithstriderwife
@wraithstriderwife (938)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
there are really inconstant variables that surrounds a relationship. So it's not really an assurance that for example you have a very long relationship, it will instantly give you success. Anytime, it could be taken away by a snap. I agree with you that it really is dependent on the people that is into the relationship.
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dytdlh2007
@dytdlh2007 (107)
• China
22 Jan 07
we should not believe it or not it.maybe when he said it,he is sincere,but time chage him.we should believe when he say "I love you",we trust it,when he doesn't love you,wo should let hand go.
Rasnie
@Rasnie (1135)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 07
Yes agree with you, long tern relation ship not always make you success until you get married, it depend on some one to maintain their relation ship.
ilunice
@ilunice (947)
• Netherlands
20 Jan 07
Well, if any relationship is based on falsehood, it will collapse except the two find themselves quickly and adjust. Relationship is more of understanding than anything. I mean, love is understanding your partner and the readiness to take him/her as he/she is. Reality must be from the svery begining.