What is good, having only one girlfriend or more girlfriend?

@ChuckGel (244)
Philippines
January 19, 2007 11:41pm CST
One of my friend here asks me, what's good? Having only one girlfriend or more girlfriend? Because according to him, the more the better as he says...How about you? Where do you prefer?
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15 responses
@haze06 (241)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I'm a girl and I know that betrayal is something serious. Of course you just have to choose only one. Try putting yourself in other people's shoes and you'' know the answer. What if your girlfriend whom you really love and wanted to spend the rest of your life with suddenly drops you like a hot potato? Only because of the reason that you're not the only one in her life. You're just one of her toy? Will it hurt? Will you tolerate it? It's up to you.
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
YES!it is good for other guys to have more girlfriends because almost all guys believe in collect,collect,and select the best.But for me i rather choose to have only one because i dont want to hurt girls and i knw they also feel pain!
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@ChuckGel (244)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Yes, i agree with you...Its somehow putting yourself into the shoe of that girlfriend/boyfriend of yours and then feeling the pain you've put into it...
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
As for me, you all just have to apply the golden rule. How does it feel if your partner wants to have another one and had already found it without you knowing it? Confucius said it all. Believe him.
• India
20 Jan 07
one girlfriend is more then enough...if she really likes and you can share all of your feelings with her..dont go for too many girlfriendz..it can create confusion for you..whom to choose..
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@jimvans (32)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
one girlfriend for me because you can manage your time if you have only a girlfriend....
• India
2 Feb 07
i think having one gf is very good and very safe ...
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@k3tk3t (3128)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
well im a gorl..so i would prefer the only one....
@doc_sid9 (316)
• India
2 Feb 07
no...never....multiple partners r to be avoided...better have 1 then getting many more2 b complicated
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
In my own opinion, if I love a person, I won't have any other option. He will be the only one....nobody else to choose for....
@saswat_13 (127)
• India
20 Jan 07
look it depends on da kinda relationship you maintain with gals.. if u can maintain a light kinda relationship with many gals with they knowing your intentions then its well n good..but remember u can be truely committed only to one of them.. its upto you..u can enjoy life both ways... cheers.
@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
20 Jan 07
I think in the age of 18 we should have a more than one girlfriend because having more girlsfriends give you option to choose the best for your marriage. but the fair is that u have only one girlfriend . what do u think
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
i prefer to have 1...its better to have 1...
@gangasa (220)
• India
2 Feb 07
there is 4 liners in hindi "yeh dil koi mamuli cheez nahn hai kissi nek ko diya kijiye aur jab tak woh nek na mile har ek pe try kiye kijiye" means your heart is very special one give it to someone who is special but try to on everybody until u get that special one
• India
2 Feb 07
It is not bad to have many girlfriends till nono of them get to know about each other.....there is no harm in having more than one girlfriend......is you are not satisfied with one then go for more than one......but in oder to have them all you should be loyal to all ......... but still i would prefer just one beacause if you have many you always in the tension that WHAT IF they come to know about each other.....you can get all the pleasures of life from than one instead of trying to get it from all.
@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
20 Jan 07
I think in the age of 18 we should have a more than one girlfriend because having more girlsfriends give you option to choose the best for your marriage. but the fair is that u have only one girlfriend . what do u think