Love after marriage
20 Jan 07
I think love after marriage must be more real and stronger. Dont' get me wrong, I had love marriage and i am very hapy too. But I feel, love after marriage must be something really more romantic and new. In love marriage you already know the person so awkwardness is not there but it must be quite adventurous to enter a marriage with a stranger and then discover each other as the day pass you by.
• United States
28 May 07
I guess it depends on the culture you're in. For instance, in our Spanish-heavy culture, we have the Latin passions and all that, so it's love, and then marriage. In other conservative cultures, it's marriage first; love can come later when the partners learn to tolerate and appreciate each other. I guess I believe in the integrity of both. I'm in a committed relationship right now, and we're both in love; but I think we are still getting to know each other better, and I think there will be more to love in each other. So maybe when we get married, my husband and I will still keep loving each other as we learn more about each other.:)
21 Jan 07
I have fallen in love with my wife after marriage. I never knew that she was so beautiful from not only appearance but also from heart. She is not only a big turn on for me but also very caring. I am still madly in love with her after 15 years of marriage.
20 Jan 07
I think it is nice if two people meet and fall in love, get married and have a family and live happily ever after. But... that doesn't happen very often I am sad to say. The good thing is that love can grow from something that was just one sided. So as long as their is love there is hope. I have not had the most pleasent of childhood and would like to forget most of and when the woman I married met me I was carrying a lot of old baggage that didn't really allow me to love the way one should love. But she saw me inside there and eventually dragged me out of who I was. So love before marriage is great but it's even better when it's discovered later. So I would have to say I believe both of them also. :)
20 Jan 07
i believe in both . both can happen to anyone. this is not fixed criteria and there are no boundations on anyone so he can get in love b4 marriage or after marriage. but falling in love to second one after marriage is a bad thing. making love triangle is the worst thing i have ever encountered.