does it happen to u ?

By Anu
India
January 21, 2007 1:45am CST
when ever i think of a topic and decide that i will start this discussion and think that may be this is a very unique thing which people would like to discuss, but alas i find that somebody has already started this topic......i feel sad. so instead of starting a new topic i participate in the already started discussion...does this happen to you. how often does it happen....in that case what do u do?
7 responses
• India
30 Jan 07
Till now twice the same thing happened to me and now iam doing the same thing u r doing just responding to the discussions started by others.
• India
30 Jan 07
thanks for responding
@darshakk (2142)
• India
25 Jan 07
haha....yes this has happened.as a matter of fact i was to start this very discussion but u initiated it and here i a mresponding to ur discussion!!!!!!!!
• India
30 Jan 07
hahaha. nice to now. thanks for responding.
@manmaxman (850)
• India
2 Feb 07
never feel sad dear first if u think of any discussion than start it if any other is already beleve ur self and if any one is started it already than modify it and than start it ok never be sad
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
It happens to many so many times because too many people are already here at MyLot so the chances are, there are too many of them topics created everyday. Some are just being repeated rephrase etc.
@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
29 Jan 07
Yes, it´s happened to me too. I always search for the topic I want to use before I start a discussion, for some reason, sometimes no results show up, so I go ahead and once posted I see that other people have posted basically the same topic. It doesn´t make me feel sad, just a bit frustrated. I usually end up participating in the started discussion.
@sunny5u (2071)
• India
21 Jan 07
Yes,Manytimes it happened to me.I too felt sad but i didn't feel only two or three times i got which no one had given that topic.No problem go on with your work.
@valmiki9 (1171)
• India
21 Jan 07
it is a normal thing.This is because we are centrifugal or our thoughts are centrifugal.They run around the asme central point that is me.we can think only in relation to problems and interests of life which are common toall.This is the reason why you will find almost all common topics have been ddicussed. One or two uncommon topics are those in which ordinary people are not interested aor you can find an answer in the encyclopedia.It is best that you give your original comments to the discussion of other people.